Hi, we have lots of toys in our collection but mostly use for my wife, whats everyone using for the man in the bedroom? Looking for recommendations 
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Good topic. Has to be a cock ring and something for the butt - plug, anal beads or prostate massager. Your OH can pop the butt toy in and then you get a great orgasm. Graduate to pegging - not yet experienced but on the list.
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There are some great cock rings on LH website.
If it’s for your pleasure, look for a motor in the toy near the penis. Some have the vibrations set for the woman, so you don’t feel anything but she does.
We have both and it depends if I know I will cum quickly, I won’t use one for me, only for her.
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We have tried vibrating cock rings but I struggle with the timing. I end up cuming too soon because the vibrations are intense. Requires more mental control than I can muster in the heat of the moment! So interesting that you can get cock rings with different settings
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Same here. Sometimes I wear one and feel like a teenager again and can finish in seconds.
That’s why I mentioned on that is only a ring for me but the vibrations for her. The motor is far enough away that I can’t feel it.
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Cool, must look into those
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I agree - we’re a lot more limited, unfortunately.
For me it’s a Fleshlight for having sex with (obviously) which opens you up for other things like getting your balls or ass licked, or even giving some oral yourself.
You’re limited by your anatomy, but also by your creativity.
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It’s such great anatomy, lots to enjoy with it
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For me, and my benefit, it’s a cock ring (or two!!!).
A nice not very stretchy (tight) cock ring makes my orgasms better. It delays ejaculations a little bit, and to get past the constriction of the cock ring, a certain amount of cum needs to build up…. And when it bursts the dam, it’s pretty intense.
The other one also is a cock ring….. but vibrating, like the we-vibe pivot or tenga svr. These two are excellent…… for her. They dont do much to me directly, but what they do to my wife does a lot to me. Also, they promote a balls deep grinding sex session to maximise contact with her clit, and feeling her getting quite worked up, soaking wet, her vagina spasming around my cock as I grind in her is incredible. We both love it.
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And now that’s all I can think about.
Well done me.
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I have a vibrating cock ring. LOVE IT. My wife likes it too. It doesn’t really keep me harder or anything - but I love the motion of it - she also takes it and rubs it on herself. I also like when she puts it under my balls.
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Textured Strokers tend to be fun and nipple clamps for those that like a bit of fetish!
You’ve also got prostate massagers too if he likes some anal stimulating
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Nipple clamps are a good call. I love my wife abusing my nipples……. We dont need toys for that, but wouldn’t mind them at all!
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Which nipple clamps are people using?
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I have tbe love honey male wand it’s shaped like an F. It’s got 6 different vibrations and makes me cum every time
Never used them myself but I have on a few experimental occasions just used washing pegs 
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I bet washing pegs are quite a look!!
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Funky coloured ones of course!!
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Has to be for us a cock ring and ball stretcher .love the way it enhances the look of the cock and balls.and for him it increases the volume and power of the ejaculated which we a both fans of big cum shots. also dildos of various sizes but that goes without saying
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Edit: I didn’t read OP title very well.
The only sex toy worthile for the man during hetro sex is a cock sleeve - the ones you wear to increase girth and length - no the ones you wank into. cock rings are OK but the partner will not notice much difference with rings. The cock sleeve will absolutely make your woman scream and moan and clench onto you like never before. Thats if youre average size dick. if youre well hung already it might not be be much useful.
My original response below was for male solo play. njoy wand is GOAT.
Njoy wand, about 2 hours of alone time. No phone calls, no door knocks, no stress. And stroke with the bater boys tune. Learn prostate massage and get sent to 7th dimension. It can feel psychedelic. Herbal boost gets you there faster and harder. Once you experience it, you stop masturbating all together, Penis is just for sex with wife. And I stay harder better and last longer with just using penis for sex.
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