Hi everyone,
I have a question about massage oils/lubricant. Id love to treat the oh to a full body massage, including a pussy massage, but im not sure what is safe to use? We dont use condoms so thats not an issue.
Any advice/recommendations on what you lovely people use would be much appreciated 
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Coconut oil or a non sented massage oil is sort of the standard, but if you’re after something with a bit more aroma, do some research on aromatherapy to see what suits you
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Seeing as you are trying for the first time and the fragrance of the oil can be good and bad depending on the oil it’s difficult to say this one and this one only.
But here is the top three I use and because they are safe after being massaged you can kiss and lick 
all you want too.
These are £5.99 each but on an offer of 3 for 2.
These more per bottle and £15
Placing some in your cupped hand to warm it is the best tip, there are also wax massage candles too and if you get cramps in your hands there are toys too.
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Happy to talk more if you need it.
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We do this alot. Iv just bought her a massage table for her birthday. We use coconut oil or an aromatic lavander scented oil.
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We just use baby lotion, does the job just fine.
I would love a massage table though.
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Thanks for replying. By coconut oil do you mean like a coconut massage oil or coconut oil youd get from the supermarket?
I’m seconding @JGood 's advice. We use a a massage oil for massage, but if you want something lickable, I wouldn’t suggest it - it smells great, but it doesn’t smell tasty! 
Also to second JGood’s advice, I adore the Durex Very Charry lube. I hope that helps 
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We have tried a fair few different massage oils and imo nothing beats good ol baby oil
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Another vote for baby oil.
It’s so easy to use, cheap and doesn’t stain fabrics like some massage oils I have used.
We have a lovely lavender scented massage oil that’s really really nice. Don’t really use it internally, but it does get on me usually before penetration during the course of the massage, nevwr had an issue!
Does anybody find the baby oil okay on your lips
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Which lips lol either it’s fine I’m very sensitive and I find it great no issues love it
We use 100% pure coconut oil from the supermarket warm a small amount in your hands then off you go. It’s really nice on the skin and not to oily. Love rubbing it on my wife’s bum and boobs.
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I like to use cold pressed jojoba oil. It’s fine to use all over the body including intimate areas. It’s more expensive than a mineral oil such as baby oil but has more skin benefits.
You can add your own essential oils to jojoba or coconut oil to give some fragrance or added relaxation benefits but in that case I would not advise using them directly on or in intimate areas as they can cause irritation.
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Coconut oil is the answer
You do have to be careful with essential oils as they can be diuretic and should not be used on pregnant women. I used them in the past and they used to bring on my period.