It can be good either way I think. However I do agree with most that if you are taking part in mutual masturbation, it is great foreplay but I rarely cum.... that is not the idea of it for me I don't think. My partner going down on me whilst he masturbates is very hot though! As for masturbating alone, it is still enjoyable and a fantastic way to pass the time if you are having a night in alone.
I can't decide.. Alone is good because you don't have to think about someone else and can just concentrate on yourself but with my partner is good too because he usually plays with my boobies which adds to the pleasure :)
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I can't decide.. Alone is good because you don't have to think about someone else and can just concentrate on yourself but with my partner is good too because he usually plays with my boobies which adds to the pleasure :)
Both have their places, depends on mood and how much time we've got!
Both have there time and place in a relationship
Alone too, my own little minds world! Although as most of us have said the same does this mean we need to be more open with partners and share these private little turn ons or should they be kept for personal pleasures??
Alone too, my own little minds world! Although as most of us have said the same does this mean we need to be more open with partners and share these private little turn ons or should they be kept for personal pleasures??
MrTools wrote:
Alone too, my own little minds world! Although as most of us have said the same does this mean we need to be more open with partners and share these private little turn ons or should they be kept for personal pleasures??
It's not that I keep mine secret. It's just that when I'm alone I can think of them at exactly the pace I need to, change what happens, change with new ideas that pop into my head. My partner knows what I think about when I'm alone. It's not that it's private, it's that in my head I can ignore whatever else is going on with no pressure. X
Well yes now you put it like that I agree! Although sometimes sex should be allowed to be 1 way (in turn) so that you can do what you want to do at your pace. ;)MissChar wrote:
MrTools wrote:
Alone too, my own little minds world! Although as most of us have said the same does this mean we need to be more open with partners and share these private little turn ons or should they be kept for personal pleasures??
It's not that I keep mine secret. It's just that when I'm alone I can think of them at exactly the pace I need to, change what happens, change with new ideas that pop into my head. My partner knows what I think about when I'm alone. It's not that it's private, it's that in my head I can ignore whatever else is going on with no pressure. X
Yeah of course! :) hehe. And I'm not trying to say I only orgasm by myself! But I can't during mutual masturbation hardly ever, because I'm trying to keep at a pace with my man, worrying about what I look like and what's going on instead of fantasising about evil things! :P x
Pity mutual masturbation blindfolded wouldn't work! Hahaha to me watching a woman cum makes me cum anyway so her worrying about my timing doesn't matter! 1 of my main turn ons is hearing a woman enjoy sexual pleasure! ;)
I do it anyway i just dont come but i dont care about that rather have someone do it for me! haha. Lol if I masturbated how I normally do by myself I think it would be really boring to watch. X
Alone i think. Although I do love doing it with my partner and its great foreplay but i don't think I've ever had an orgasm doing this with my partner probably because id rather be having sex :)
Not to me me I'd rather watch the face enjoying it so the real deal would work better! Ask your man he might agree with me! ;)
Lol no when I go into my own world I just withdraw, silent and stone faced I probably look dead haha.
Haha but that's reality- real is the sexiest thing going! ;)
I'm not saying I fake it. I think you're getting the wrong end of the stick. But I'm saying that during mutual I do it completely different, which doesn't often lead to an orgasm.
Yes I do get you don't worry :) I'd rather my OH filmed herself then gave the film to me to watch and masturbate over! :)
MrTools wrote:
Yes I do get you don't worry :) I'd rather my OH filmed herself then gave the film to me to watch and masturbate over! :)
Oooh now I like that idea!!!! That takes the pressure off, might have to give it a go! X
That is a great idea Mr Tools. I'd encourage Mrs Yorkie to do it, but I'm not sure she'd be up for it. She masturbates regularly in front of me - quite often I'll follow up her to bed to find her pleasuring herself with our toys, but I've never done the same with her.