We both enjoy both - solo masturbation is very important to us both and we both have daily sessions , but mutual masturbation is also a massive part of our sex life
I like mutual masturbation, doing it with someone elevates the fun.
Mutual masturbation - lazy Saturday mornings just wouldnāt be the same without it!
I have the higher sex drive, so I like solo if I just need to pull my mind back out of the gutter, but mutual is hot damn!
Weāve never masturbated together. I like the sound of it! Weāve played with each other but never said, Iām watching you and thatās it. I would love that with my exhibitionist side, I think!
Often tho, I end up orgasming and then thatās me sort of ādoneā and I feel self conscious.
For those of you who continue with another orgasm for the woman, do you have a break then start rubbing again. My mind and body always seem to be either āsleep modeā or āletās get on with the day modeā. I guess a busy stressful job/being a mum doesnāt help!
Any suggestions to extend the experience?
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When me and my partner do she likes me to be outside the bedroom while sheās on the bed and I watch her through the crack in the door then I strip naked behind the door then walk in we usually lie facing each other with pillows behind us and start slowly teasing each other and building up the tension till we both ready to cum she likes me to cum on her fingers while she plays and as I cum that usually sends her over the edgeā
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I do both and enjoy both
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Majority of the time masturbating is solo, but we do occasionally do it together.
When doing it together it is normally when the OH is in the shower playing with herself and me watching and wanking.
Another place is OH is chair in bedroom using either a dildo or fingers and me standing next to her. Sometimes I may finish with a blowjob from this positionā¦
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Just because we love it, we masturbated together yesterday. I really took my time - stopped to watch oh rub her pussy and went back to rubbing my penis gently and slowly. I wanted to cum so badly, but I took my time. I edged till I couldnāt hold back and just kept going. I was on my back. My load his my neck! THAT helped oh cum. I heard her moaning and saw her hips come off the bed! We showered after - we needed one. LOL
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I prefer to masturbate alone. I have a higher sex drive than her so Itās nice sometimes to have some me time and just relax and take my time when sheās not available. When we get intimate I would rather do other things, as I can have a wank at any time. We do occasionally enjoy masturbating together and watching each other. I also find if one if us is horny and starts wanking beside the other it will soon get the other one turned on. This has led to a shag many a time, this is normally her little trick!
Love it both sometimes we do it together other times by ourselfs. She sent me oicture of the bed from squirting yesterday while i was at work. Night before was mutal masturbating then sex a hr or so later. Last night she feel alseep so i had a wank nextto her
Mutual watching eachother is awesome
Mutual I can finish just from watching her definitely if she just using her fingers.
Of late we have been regularly masturbating which is great but I feel my oh is just doing it to please me. I get to rub her till she cums which doesnāt take long ! However when it comes to her getting me cumming She can get me off in minutes or less.i try to stop her but she keeps going to get me off as possible.its great overall but I could do with having a longer play 
I like doing it alone where I can create a fantasy in my mind or looking at porn images or videos.
We love both! Depends the day though. Sometimes alone is preferred others its fun to do together!
I tend to be alone, but after reading this will definitely look to try mutual.
I enjoy both - love a good solo session but also masturbate with my partner a lot