Masturbating alone or Mutual Masturbating?

Our mutual sessions are a big part of our sex life and we love watching eachother playing :sweat_drops:
But solo masturbation is also very enjoyable

We both enjoy both - solo masturbation is very important to us both and we both have daily sessions , but mutual masturbation is also a massive part of our sex life

I like mutual masturbation, doing it with someone elevates the fun.

I enjoy both, husband likes to watch, but i like my alone time too, various resons, for quickness, release, to re tune into my body, to allow thought for fantasys.
I will always tell him though when i have done it (usually when hes working late) he may feel he wants to do the same, other times he doesnt care.

Mutual masturbation - lazy Saturday mornings just wouldn’t be the same without it!

I have the higher sex drive, so I like solo if I just need to pull my mind back out of the gutter, but mutual is hot damn!

We’ve never masturbated together. I like the sound of it! We’ve played with each other but never said, I’m watching you and that’s it. I would love that with my exhibitionist side, I think!

Often tho, I end up orgasming and then that’s me sort of ‘done’ and I feel self conscious.

For those of you who continue with another orgasm for the woman, do you have a break then start rubbing again. My mind and body always seem to be either ‘sleep mode’ or ‘let’s get on with the day mode’. I guess a busy stressful job/being a mum doesn’t help!

Any suggestions to extend the experience?

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When me and my partner do she likes me to be outside the bedroom while she’s on the bed and I watch her through the crack in the door then I strip naked behind the door then walk in we usually lie facing each other with pillows behind us and start slowly teasing each other and building up the tension till we both ready to cum she likes me to cum on her fingers while she plays and as I cum that usually sends her over the edge​:blush::sweat_drops:

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I do both and enjoy both

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Majority of the time masturbating is solo, but we do occasionally do it together.
When doing it together it is normally when the OH is in the shower playing with herself and me watching and wanking.
Another place is OH is chair in bedroom using either a dildo or fingers and me standing next to her. Sometimes I may finish with a blowjob from this position…

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