So I often wake up earlier than my O/H . Horny and so want to masturbate whiles she’s asleep, anyone had partner wake up while doing this. Was it a positive response. Tired of having to do it in the shower
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Would like to do this but it wouldn’t be well received by my partner. Sorry for us both.
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Yes I do - 3am in the morning I often find my fingers wander down
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The first time I woke up to find my husband seeing to himself I thought it very sexy. I was not shocked at all. We do have a very relaxed and open communication to all things sex.
I watched him and talked sexy to him so much so that he wanted to finish inside me. I said “no, you have to finish what you started, unless you need help?” He just carried on until he shot his load, then I did the clean up.
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Does ur other half wake and enjoy it
Has happened on occasion, she will either see what I am doing, roll her eyes and go back to sleep, or it will be the start of a sexy frolick.
@Tuck - no he sleeps through
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So my other half woke up part way Thur and said what ya doing I showed her the video of her masturbating that I was watching. She grabbed my balls and said. That’s hot 
next minute I’ve cum so hard. Will be doing that again soon
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My GF has a huge sex drive as I don’t. Can’t help that. She often pleases herself as she wakes early too. I sometimes hear her and might rub her butt or back to let her know I know. I love she can do it as she feels.
It helps me be comfy doing what I like with her close by too. Open 100% with this girl.
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I think I may have before because I could not fall asleep. I don’t believe my partner has but if so, good on them for doing so! I don’t think mine would care much at all. I just worry that it would cross a consent line. I’m not sure overall. I’ll have to ask!
Sometimes she wakes up in which case she will finish me off. When she doesn’t wake up then depending what way she’s facing I’ll cum on her belly/tits or her ass. Nice suprise for when she wakes up 
I often wank next to my sleeping wife. If she wakes up she’ll usually help.
Seems I am the odd one out on this discussion. This isn’t something we have agreed to in advance so there is an issue of consent if one is sleeping. Several have posted that their partners are good with it which is cool. Just not a topic we have discussed. No issues with mutual masturbation and neither of us have to go hide to do it but taking advantage of someone while sleeping isn’t a bridge we have crossed to date. We would likely both be fine with it but there are times when sleep and warmth in a comforter is more important than arousal.
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Frequently, I have the HSD so I’m used to “sorting myself out” while hubby sleeps. I once woke up to find him playing next to me (woke me up) and I asked him what he was watching and told him to keep watching and let me take over. We had a big mess to clear up before we could get back to sleep but it was worth it lol.
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Totally get it. It’s just not were my relationship is at right now. Envious of those that can enjoy this type of freedom providing it’s consensual.
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Of course. We’re agreed that the other has “first dibs”, but it’s unreasonable to assume that the other can/should just go without. We’re all human.
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We tend to have mutual masturbation sessions occasionally which is fun, we also have both woken up in the night or morning to see the other person having a solo session … but usually it ends up with the other person helping. Sometimes I’m not in the mood or she isn’t in the mood but we all have needs so we both help each other when needed …
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Interesting comment on “first dibs”. Can you expand on that one?
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Sure. Basically it just comes down to not assuming that the other one wouldn’t want to have sex/be intimate. Hubby and I do like pleasuring one another and sharing fantasies, so it would be kind of selfish to just assume that the other wouldn’t be interested. If the other one refuses then that’s different, but we don’t make those assumptions first-hand.
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That’s a very interesting view point I hadn’t considered before. My spouse and I are the other way around. Experiences are agreed in advance so there are no surprises for either of us. I find the assumption of consent to be interesting but you would need a solid relationship for that to work.
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