I have always played with myself during sex - men just want your hole and that does nothing for me - so I touch myself or use toys on my clit
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Thatās a bit of a generalisation. From the comments on this forum and speaking for myself i love nothng more than stimulating all a womenās erogenous zones. Her orgasms are far more important than mine.
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I have to agree with rockstar on this one, not all men ājust want your holeā hubby loves to do plenty more than that 
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The Mrs always uses her bullet vibe during sex. She is usually using it before I get chance to get my kit off and she uses it throughout the love making. She finds PIV a bit uncomfortable when it first goes in and the vibrations help ease the discomfort. She knows what she likes and I love to see her enjoying herself.
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I love rubbbing my clit during sex i just love the feeling of my pussy getting wet and my clit aroused also love my husbands thick cā¦k inside me as we have sex
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100% agree with you there, I love nothing more than making sure my OH gets all the orgasms she wants and needs before any PIV, even if we are going to have a quickie I still make sure I get her ājuices flowingā before anything else.
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Yeah i usually do.
Hubby loves watching
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@rockstar
Sorry - you are right that not all men want just vaginal sex - I had a lot of bad experiences years ago and my views can often be biased
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@izzywizzy we all do that. I also hate being tarred with the āall menā brush, but it saddens me more that enough men are a certain way that it leads to generalisation.
ā¦ I like to own the saying ānice guys finish lastā. Iām a nice guy. Sex for me is about trying to make the other person have a great time.
The hot guys out there that get more attention/sex likely donāt worry about trying so hard.
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My previous boyfriend was jealous of toys, etc. and also didnāt like for me to help myself during sex. It was annoying but it didnāt affect our relationship. The first sexy time with my now husband, he basically grabbed my hand placed it on my vagina so I could help him get me off. The second time with him I took the reigns and my little bullet vibe made an appearance!
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We both love this and watching each other. Just a normal and regular part of sex for us.
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Masturbation during sex is absolutely awesome and a super hot turn on my wife will use a clit sucker while I masturbate and when she ready to orgasim Iāll cum on her clit 
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Nearly always, I love the fact that the OH uses her wand on her clit during sex, I can feel the vibrations whilst inside her. And when she orgasms the contractions of her pussy, helps me to cum.
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The only guys that would be upset by their OH masturbating during sex would be those with fragile egos (commonly known as the, āArenāt I Enough?ā complex).
I personally think itās great if Sexterminatrix can help herself to the buttons I might not be pushing for her at that time, and I take notes to make sure theyāre being pushed next time around. 
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I almost always have a vibrator on my clit while we have sex
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Most of the time, doing my part is getting out of my wifeās way so she can rub her clit during PIV. If it were up to me, Iād go down on her for 2-3 Oās every day before I ever came inside, but thatās not what she wants on the daily.
But yes, being in a safe and comfortable relationship where sheās able do do what she wants is also a way of doing my part.
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@LRLRL I feel you. I really do. Iād do that for my OH if she asked. Every now and then I remind her itās what Iād happily do. One day ā¦ maybe.
V.true re: getting out of her way. Wifey is the same. Iāve chatted with her about how Iād like to be more āresponsibleā for her orgasms more often. Before me, I think my wife basically did have to get herself there most of the time ā¦ itās hard for her to relax and let it be something that is done for her instead.
ā¦ she also struggles being the centre of attention in general, and thatās 10-fold during sex.
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YESSS, if i havenāt yet come, which is rare as my partner like to ensure i have several times before we get to penetration then 100% i need to come and im coming now!!!
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EXACTLY THIS! Since having my daughter i find it extremely difficult to come from just penetration unless its a super strong vibe.
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