My OH is not as horny as me and I need to cum on a regular basis. We have agreed that whenever I want to play I tell her and she either joins me, gives me a helping hand or watches. I am quite open to this set up and always tell her if I am going for a session. I want to introduce more male toys especially a flesh light but not sure how she would react to this
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Sounds like she’s pretty open to your needs buddy. I find shopping on LH together is always a hot and enlightening experience. Get to find out what interests the both of you.
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Keep talking and yes to browsing together, there’s lots of options for masturbators so if she’s not keen on something anatomical you could go for something different.
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I’d also recommend browsing LH together and point out the things you’re interested in! That way, you can get a feel for what your partner will be comfortable with. My husband doesn’t want us using the realistic looking toys, so we found other toys that we could enjoy the same sensations. If there’s a toy you’re interested in that she reacts negatively to, there are so many options, so you can you can keep browsing together to find the right ones 
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Ask her. If she’s up for the idea then why not get her to order something for you as a surprise - it’ll involve her a little more and is less likely to run the risk of her being put off by anything you may choose yourself.
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It sounds like she is reasonable open to things already. I would look on the LH site for ideas together.
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I agree with @hornycouplebythesea in that you should perhaps get her involved by helping to choose the fleshlight together 
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Just ask her.
If she’s happy to watch you masturbate I can’t see her objecting to the introduction of a toy.
The Fleshlight Pilot or the Quickshot are not anatomically styled so they may be a good place to start.
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We both like to masturbate regularly, usually daily for me at some point and 3-4 times a week for him but it can be more depending on where we are and what we are doing. We usually tell each other if one of us needs to do it and it will usually be something like ‘I need a wank’ for him or ‘I just need 5 minutes with my vibrator’ for me. He does have a Fleshlight and he uses that a lot of the time.
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I’m in the same boat actually. I generally need to cum before I can go to sleep. I have involved a Fleshlight, through communication, and there are times when she wouldn’t have, that she actually stopped me and backed that ass up. I will say that I am still working on not being frustrated, and I’m not 100% on where our relationship is going. I feel like my sex drive is insanely high, and hers is generally nonexistent. I like to cum 2 -3 times a day if I can, and I don’t expect it all to be sex, but I wouldn’t mind her initiating once in awhile. The real problem for me is that I need to feel wanted, and I don’t.
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@Gemma12345 that is so sexy that you started as friends and things progressed. What a great way for a relationship to develop.
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Nice to have a bit of mutual masturbation
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I’d like to do this, but she is shy about masturbating. Her porn selection is men masturbating and cumming so I’m sure she’d love the show
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We love to masterbate together and I enjoy letting her masterbating me while I eat her that’s what is great in love it especially with her.
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My wife sometimes plays a bit with herself in front of my just before have oral or sex. She sometimes dresses up in sexy outfits and puts on a little show for me.
If we were together and in the mood I don’t think she would be up for mutual masturbation, she would probably give me a BJ (and swallow lucky me) or we would have sex and I would cum inside or on her even if she wasn’t in the mood.
When she’s away for work trips we’ve sent some rude messages and texts to each other and I think that’s when I might suggest we do some mutual masturbation or videos as I would like to see that.
She knows that I like to cum lots and watch porn and I always try to cum at least 6 times a week - I know she watches porn and cums when she’s away on work trips and we chat about it a bit remotely but when she’s in this country we talk about it less.
I’m in the mood most times so would be quite nice for her to watch me or help me out but not sure if that’s too much her thing so I’ll find time to myself. Good luck.
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We enjoy mutual masturbation and always try and cum together
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