So who still masturbates even tho in a relationship. And what’s ur partners thoughts
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Me and my partner masturbate - we both enjoy it and it doesn’t affect our togetherness in the slightest.
We each have our own toys and like to use them with and for eachother.
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We both still masturbate together which is extra fun and also do it solo. Doesn’t effect are romance one bit
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Yes, we both still masturbate
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Both of my partners and I masturbate, sometimes I masturbate with one or the other. I’ve been married for almost 13 years and with the other two months. I think they’d be more upset if I didn’t masturbate, or if I tried to stop them.
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We both still masturbate, together, separate or we masturbate each other. I especially enjoy it when he sends me videos of himself 
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I think most couples still masturbate even if in a relationship. It is a healthy outlet for sexual pleasure, and, if you are candid about it and not trying to hide it, can be a way to enhance your lovemaking, especially if done together. As long as masturbation is not done as a replacement for regular couples play, it is fine.
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Yes wife and I masturbate, alone, mutual masturbation watching each other get off. We also masturbate each other.
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A big yes. Personally I really couldn’t imagine a relationship without it. Surely it must be common. Solo is good but together is the best way 
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Wife and I mutually masturbate some and wife very seldom will solo masturbate. I however work in a good solo session usually every couple days when I can, wife knows but never asks about it, I wish she would watch and encourage/instruct some of my solo sessions.
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40 years of marriage and we have both masturbated solo and together. Just depends on the mood.
I am sorry I have misled you all. It was supposed to say 40 not 49. But I hope we are doing the same thing when we reach 49.
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And it’s a definite yes for us. It’s just a natural thing that happens. Mrs Balls encourages me to do it, and loves to watch and sometimes helps, I encourage her, watch and help. If we didn’t sex for a few days and I hadn’t had a wank or two it would be over in no time, not much fun for anyone, apart from the pleasure it gives us both it’s a natural release valve.
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We both masturbate - it’s an important part of our sex life too
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My wife says she never masturbates by herself
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It has to be YES, We have been together 30+ years and masturbation has been a part of our sexual relationship as hubby has always had a higher sex drive
In the last 10 years or so we have made it a bigger part of our sexual pleasure with mutual session or watching the other pleasure themselves
We both still enjoy solo masturbating but are totally open with eachother when and how we did it
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Yea we still do, my wife less frequent than me, but i work from home so my opportunities far outweigh my wife’s.
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Wow, nearly a half century together. Congratulations and keep up the fun.
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Yes i do still solo quiet regularly when im alone , iv openly admitted it to my O.H but she looks and it in a negitive/disrespectful way , she says/asks me if shes not enough or is she not satisfying me enough ect . But iv tried to explain that she more than satisfys me its just i enjoy masterbating when iv got time to myself and that the feeling is a completely different feeling to actual sex , of course having actual sex feels way better . But when its solo it is spur of the moment and quick with a sudden dopamine rush and stress relief.
Dose anyone feel the same ?
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@JKM1 Welcome to the forum.
It is nothing to do with her being enough and at least you are being honest with her.
Sometimes, manually bring yourself to climax is a stress relief mechanism or a way of scratching an itch without wanting full intercourse.
I think that you just need to reassure your OH, perhaps share this forum with her and she will see that it is perfectly normal within a loving relationship.
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My suspicion is your OH does not masturbate,and relies strictly for you to pleasure her. If that is true, she would not have the same take as you. I am the same, I love having intimacy with my wife, but there are times when I just want a quick stress relief, without any complications, focusing purely on my pleasure.
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