What are people’s thoughts of masterbating in front you OH.
Other night my OH was not up for a bit of fun…Jokingly she said why dont you knock one out…
Which i said i would as was up for some fun … i did the dead and found it very liberating also and enjoyed the experience as my partner was in the bed beside me..
In Fairness whilst in action she did carrese my ears and made me feel comfortable kissing and touching me in sensitive areas..
It was a very enjoyable moment for me and would like to try it again as i loved the experience
My OH didnt say much about it once i had finished and i didnt ask her what he thoughts and feelings of me masterbating in beside her…I presume she enjoyed me watching and got aroused .
Would love to try it again and have a similar if not better experience. I presume with the actions of my wife she enjoyed her watching me as she didn’t lie there and do nothing…what are people’s thoughts on this and any advice to improve the experience.
You should bring it up with her and see how she found it, maybe ask if she’d like to masturbate with you - can be a great way to get to know how each of you likes to be touched
To improve the experience you could introduce toys, touching/ kissing in other areas, dirty talk and maybe some edging
As @JustSomeFun said, it’s good fun! Hubby and I love masturbating together, the only problem is he knows how hot watching him gets me, and watching me has the same effect on him, so it never lasts for long hehe. Sometimes I masturbate while he’s working from home too (same room), just to watch him try and focus. He hasn’t resisted me yet
I love watching hubby play with himself. He will usually do it when im not in the mood but I give him access to my body so he can feel and poke to his hearts content. Sometimes it leads to sex and sometimes it doesn’t. He will take my cue on that one. If were particularly horny but its very late or were knackered we will masturbate next to each other. I know exactly what i need at that moment for quick release and he knows what he needs to.
It really is a different level of intimacy
This is quite a frequent occurrence in our house. My wife loves to watch me play with myself, however she can’t stop herself from joining in, in which case either we both carry on pleasuring ourselves while watching each other, or we switch over and each of us masturbates the other.
We have both also done this with previous partners
Mutual masturbation is definitely an underrated pastime
Thanks for the feedback. Its seems partners do get turned on by it…As i was wondering what other couple’s feelings are on it.
As i didnt bring the matter up any further with her after i had finished. she did caress me whilst doing it so maybe she did like me doing it and got some enjoyment out of it.
Masterbation can quite easily feel weird when you first masterbate in front of someone else, even in this day and age it’s considered a private action by most, to be done behind closed doors.
Talking opens so many doors and there are a few even my entertaining ways after self masterbation gets to be run if the mill, switch to mutual masterbation and then there’s games like each partner masterbates for 5 minutes and then you switch and which ever partner comes first looses and has to bring the other off. Helps build stamina
Mutual masturbation or either one of you doing it in front of the other is another level of intimacy. My wife and I do both separately watching each other or together. There is nothing hotter than watching your partner totally relaxed and exploring their bodies. I get her to tie my arms behind my back when she masturbates and I’ll stand over her so my pre cum drips on her pussy as lube
I would absolutely love for my husband to do this!! It is very rare that one of us is in the mood and the other is not though. But it would turn me on so much if he were to start playing with himself to initiate something rather than starting to play with me first.
You might recall my post a while back about masturbating in front of my partner. It’s not something either of us have really done. Since, I have, a few times, started playing with myself and either send a pic to hubby or told him what I’m doing and he’s raced home from work to join in. I did ask him when I’d get the pleasure of being invited to watch him so hopefully planting that seed leads to more solo and mutual masturbation.
Masturbation is part of our sex life. We masturbate in front of each other and also occasionally do it watching porn together.
We are honest with each other and if either of us have had a bad day and just need some stress relief we will tell the other what we are planning.
In my case it’s off to the shower with my vibe and suction cup dildo. For him it’s usually either lube and hand or a stroker lay on the bed followed by a shower.
So in summary just talk to your partner and normalise masturbation in your relationship.
I love that you do that for your husband!
That’s one of my fantasies that I’ve shared with my wife - that I’d love to know if/when she’s in the mood, like even tell me if she’s wet and what she’s thinking of, but getting a pic/video of her masturbating would be incredible!!
I think especially because my favourite category of porn is female masturbation.
I masturbate next to her in bed a lot of nights, and sometimes we’ve had some really intimate moments while I’ve been doing that, so that’s been really nice
Ex and I used to love watching porn together as a cheeky bit of foreplay. I’d always end up touching myself, which he encouraged and loved to watch. I’d try and get him to touch himself too but he wasn’t into it most of the time, just preferred if I did it for him, maybe I was really good- or he was just lazy (;
@Phil44 looking at your posts you are misleading people, I get you can dream but it doesn’t come across well when this forum is all about advice and helping people. If you haven’t had sex yet it’s not a good idea to give advice on the subject.
Not meaning to come across nasty bitchy lol
We had someone on here before and we were giving that person advice and that person was also given advice, turned out it was all a lie so it doesn’t go well, just be truthful.
! Thoroughly recommend it as a way to learn about each others bodies and what we enjoy 
