You are starting on a great adventure, enjoy
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@Some-no-one I think a fleshlight might be worth trying
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A great accompaniment to this would be a textured stroker! It gives all the control of your hand while including the fun joys of a toy!
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@AJSTAR So my first LH order arrived yesterday, and after charging them immediately, I had 20 minutes to myself this morning.
So I gave the LH Hot Shot masturbator a quick test this morning, and after slipping myself in whilst soft and switching it on, I was hard in seconds! And man, the feeling! Wayyyy better than I had expected, it was a snug fit but the vibrations and the warming feature were amazing!
Will definitely consider a textured stroker though, I have a feeling I’ll be purchasing a third, fourth item very soon! 
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@CandB_Toy_Story From what I’ve experienced today, I can only agree! 
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After that glowing review might have to try the LH Hot Shot Masturbator myself!
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@CandB_Toy_Story That’s only my first impressions, I probably haven’t used it as intended; I just left myself to get hard from the vibrations (very quick!), and the soft, warm chamber enveloped the head completely, a slight vacuum forming due to the narrower entrance of the device. From there I laid back and just left the Hot Shot to do its thing - BLISS!
With more time, I’ll try it again with lube and use it as warming, vibrating stroker - I cannot wait!! 
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Exciting times ahead
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Novelty is a big part of it and time. Having a toy involved can feel like a more luxury experience and I tend to look for toys that offer sensations not easily replicable by a hand. There’s also something about experimenting with vibrations in terms of speed, intensity and rhythm. Also spinning which is not something you can do yourself!
That said, hands offer a good range of sensations especially when adding some massage techniques to break up habits and patterns.
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How much time I have is important. If short on time, I finger the nipples, clit and labia to orgasm. if have more time, I can do a long slow buildup (finger nipples, finger labia and clit slowly, insert finger in bottom part of vagina and stroke) before inserting the lubed dildo. Then moving the dildo in different ways slowly to orgasm (s) takes time. Doing it all slowly is so sensual.
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This is fantastic news!! So glad you’ve had a great starting experience 
enjoy the next steps in the journey!
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Cheers @AJSTAR, I was able to try it again today and my first impressions still stand, a little lube increased the vacuum, but did make it a little noisier when trying to use it as more of a stroker, as the entrance is tighter than the wider inner section, which accommodates the head nicely.
I found that just by leaving the Hot Shot vibrating away on the head, brought out a much longer orgasm, making me quiver and with the slightest stroke with the device and a little nipple play took me to an intense finish.
Next up will be the High Roller Prostate Massager but I’ll need a bit more privacy for that one…
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I’ve never got much enjoyment from using my own fingers, I just get bored before I get to orgasm. Vibrator always my choice.
I say my ‘own’ fingers as I love a man who knows what he’s doing using his fingers. My H is the absolute best at it, because he knows me the best. 
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My female best friend says the same, she’s unable to cum using her fingers and always uses her rabbit vibrator on her clit otherwise she just doesn’t get there.
It’s great to have someone who knows your body well enough give you great orgasms that way
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@SW.Horny Glad that you’re having such a successful time using toys.
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Thanks @DLJL, certainly feels like a new awakening when it comes to solo fun!
From the experience with my first toy, I’m excited to see where the High Roller takes me
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Sounds like it was most blissful! Can’t wait to hear what you think of the massager
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Have enjoyed reading through this thread and your experiences with the hot shot, especially given it’s been your first toy you’ve purchased….did you ever get buying/trying the High Roller Prostate Massager yet?
Like others, and as mentioned in a previous thread in solo play, time is if the essence 
If I’ve got more time, the toys aid my play, there’s an amazing wee mini stroker that came with a couples kit we bought from LH website, for the size of it, it feels amazing 
But again, like others, if pressed for time nothing beats the feeling of using your own hand, especially at times when you know you’re feeling way more rock hard than normal 
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I have always been interested it toys. I guess it’s just the natural progression of exploration. When I got to the age when I could buy them I didn’t hesitate. I suppose I am like everyone else and now have a Collection of many toys, some are my go to’s and others I rarely use but all the same.
It’s all about exploring and enjoying new sensations and finding what you like. For the most part I masturbate with toys but if I can’t going with hands are good too.
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It really depends on the situation for me, if I’m going for prolonged masturbation, then it’s all hands on deck, touching myself all over, I absolutely 
vibrations far too much that it doesn’t take too long to cum, so I might start off with toys that buzz but then I switch to manual mode.
I do love my hands touching my body to get myself aroused and erect. Using the traditional wanking method but slow then fast and repeating this method. For those kind of sessions hands are my go to…