My wife and I are planning a post lockdown weekend away in London and she really wants to role play meeting in a cocktail bar for the “first time”. Anyone done this too and, if so, any tips on how to make it fun?
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Havnt done it but sounds fun to be fair as with having a young child we don’t get out to much
How about playing escort and client?
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Yes
I got there after he did he was seated I approached the bar dressed as if I was on a business meeting heels tight skirt hold ups low cut blouse and jacket with briefcase type bag.
He came to the bar offered to buy me a drink. Pretended we didn’t know each other.
Sat down and roleplayed it for a few hours. I went to the toilet and rang him telling him to go to the bar…I came out and put my panties in his pocket whispered in his ear that I’d taken them off and were in his pocket and then sat down and let him rub my nakedness with his foot.
Was a fab night we stayed over…I brought the stuff with me and put it in the room before I met him in the bar and his stuff was in his works van.
Good night and next morning too
Have fun
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Hardest part is trying to stay in character. Are you going to pretend to be different people or just never met before. I’d suggest thinking it out a bit with how you want it to run with some basic goal posts then improvise away.
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Start chatting up the barmaid first. 
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Curvy - that’s a great picture you paint. I think we will plan it as if we are different people to allow us to be as outrageous as we want. My plan is to ask her to go first if she’s comfortable with that and I will swing by 30 mins later. Who knows, the way she’s planning on dressing up, I will probably find her being chatted up by someone else!
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That could end up causing me a lot of trouble… I will need to rediscover my patter after all these years.
Really like that idea.
When I walked in some workmen eyed me up as they thought I was on my own it was fab to do…met up late afternoon.
Went up to the room about 8pm had drinks and porn dvd in the room ready. Also toys and underwear and I’d taken strawberries and cream too.
Had 2 keys so I went up first as soon as he walked in the room the tension was electric.
Fab fab night
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I find the idea of her being chatted up strangely exciting. Given she’ll be in stockings, suspenders and her best heels, I’m sure there will be attention…
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Top tips and really appreciate the advice!
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I can recommend the Shoreditch (in Shoreditch derr) - great bar staff, great music, great fishbowls
Went in for happy hour at 5.30 pm, left at 4.30am , half hour after the lights came on when the music finally stopped playing
(and go @CurvyJilly! sounds like a fun night too )
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If my wife asked me to buy her a drink I’d say no thanks then go to another bar
Sounds like fun, enjoy.
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OOOO that sounds like a super fun idea!!!
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I’m currently watching Gypsy on Netflix. I’m on episode 6 and it reminded me of this topic. A married couple meet and role play in the bar of a hotel, acting as if it’s their first time meeting. After a bit of flirting they go upstairs to their room and have some pretty passionate sex.
I wish I had the confidence to do something like that. I think it’s becoming a bit of a fantasy…
There’s a great scene in Modern Family where this happens and it happens annually in the show - its always made me want to do it! That might give you an idea 
That sounds super fun! Especially if OH was willing to get a little more kinky than usual.
Though, even if not extra kinky to be honest
As mentioned earlier in the thread it was fab and so much fun…and if you can throw in an overnight stay in the hotel too with a pool…sauna and jacuzzi like we did with breakfast…the next morning was amazing too.
One of the best 24hours.
If you can do it…do it…you won’t regret it
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