I think the things we need to be putting to the front of our minds when commenting on uploads (and anything in general) is being open, welcoming and kind.
Sharing an opinion, unprompted, that expresses negative sentiment towards a member/group of members uploads will put people off sharing. Not just those that are being disparaged, but many members not from that group.
If I was a new member, and saw the comments made, I wouldn’t want to share images. What if someone says I shoudn’t share lingerie images because of my body type?
So please, if everyone could put kindness at the forefront of their minds when commenting, that would be fantastic. We have created such a lovely space on our little corner of the internet, which is incredibly rare, let’s make sure to keep it that way.
I know that this is to do with the LH forum, but this bit we all need for everyday situations. I work with the public and notice people making remarks without thinking what effect it might have on the person. It’s not my place to say but on occasions I have stepped in and said you shouldn’t say that and just to think before you say anything.
Yes totally agree with what’s been said…if you don’t like an image scroll past it…if there’s certain things you don’t agree with in the lingerie photos then maybe don’t even look then the temptation isn’t there to comment negatively at all.
It takes a lot to post on the forum knowing it’s out there for all to see.
Thank you @Lovehoney_Brenna for reminding all members that if you can’t be kind then don’t comment.
So you have selected memory then kink shaming in 2022. is when I first noticed how you are. The rules clearly states no kink shaming. I have no desire to go back to that topic and since haven’t made another post or reply about that topic.
I know we live in a varied world…thank goodness…and what one person is into whether sexually or not others may not like themselves. Better to scroll past and keep negativity out of the equation.
We live in a cruel world at times and the forum is a place where we can chat…vent and find a friendly place where we can openly discuss sexual related matters without fear of judgement or ridicule…
Here’s to the Lovehoney forum and long may it last…
Exactly!
This is a place of acceptance and open mindedness. Life can be crap and it’s nice to have a haven of escape from it.
It costs the same to be kind and positive as it does to be cruel and negative, so why take the trouble to be the latter?
What a beautiful photo @Flirtycouple1 you should have nothing to be nervous about. A stunning photo of a very beautiful lady. A lovely start to Wednesday.
Love that red @EmThom92 and if it makes you feel good, then wear it! The bra and G-string set looks great @For_Your_Eyes_Only_x but if it’s uncomfortable, as per your review, then it may not be as good as it looks.
Lovely first picture @Flirtycouple1 well done on plucking up the courage to post
! The bra and G-string set looks great 
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