I’d agree, and in a strange way that’s part of the appeal and I know that when I emerge from the bathroom in stockings, suspenders and bra I look totally foolish from a certain point of view and my OH does sometimes laugh out loud, but sharing the stupidity of it is partly what makes it sexy for us (we also like a bit of sploshing for the same reason) and on top of that there’s the underlying role reversal psychology of it all.
Situation isn’t helped if lingerie is stretched out of shape or bursting at the seams. Correct sizing and fitting is vital.
I also think it’s important to realise girls’ lingerie on a man will look slightly wrong. That’s the whole idea. I never try to look/become female by wearing lingerie and don’t go as far as things like wigs or makeup. Nothing against those who do but it just doesn’t add anything for me.
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