Men getting wet dreams?

Ladies do many men still get wet dreams into their 30's or guys do you still get them? My hubby has had quite a few recently where he didn't get them really before. Background is that he was masturbating very frequently (a few times a day) to porn, I didn't mind this at all but he said his orgasms were nowhere near as strong so he decided to try and cut down. Not surprising really that he is wanking less so more chance of a wet dream!

I’ve never had a wet dream and don’t masturbate much, I’d love to experience one, a lad from work says he’s had one, said it felt amazing, hopefully there’s one in me somewhere ready to break out

I don’t think there’s a definitive answer as everyone’s body is different. In all my life I have only ever experienced one at a young age. I thought perhaps if I stopped masturbating that it would happen again but I went for 4 weeks and didn’t have another one. Perhaps your husband has a very high sex drive and if he was masturbating a lot, his body got used to it and now he’s cut down the body is responding appropriately. I’m afraid I can’t offer anymore information!

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I think it's all different for each guy, I get them more when I have been thinking about new found kinks, I also wake up feeling like I have cum feeling a really strong orgasm, But infact I didn't cum which is great as I can go straight back to sleep and start dreaming again.

Think I only have had one once as a teenager, woke up with a small stick wet patch on my bedding. Never had one since and now in my 40s, do have a very high sex drive though and can not go more than a day without either sex or a wank. Usually have to come at least twice a day to stop sexy thoughts.

I'm 36, and still have wet dreams. The OH always thought it was a puberty thing. Get them on a regular basis even though we had active sex life, and masturbate when she's not interested. Level of sex drive plays a big factor in it. OH loves foreplay, some nights I stops just before she orgasms, just keep her horny the following day. This usually results in a wet dream for me and evidence on the sheets.

I didn't start masturbating until well into my teens so I did get wet dreams when I was younger. Since then I got the occaisional one (maybe once a year) but sex and wanking regularly seemed to have reduced this a lot. I got a prince albert piercing last year and could not masturbate for 2 weeks (I couldn't wait to cum after this long) and had a wet dream then, I didn't know if it was the time between orgasms or the extra stimulation from the piercing but I have found it is both.

Now if I can go 1-2 weeks without a wank I will get a wet dream at some point. I usually wake up just after the moment I have cum and it seems to be the wetness that wakes me up. After 2 weeks there is usually a lot of cum and depending on whether I am wearing shorts or smaller undies depends on whether it leaks out or not.

I am 61 and get a wet dream on the 3rd night after last cumming without fail. It is a hard on that wakes me up in the early morning, often my cock aches from being so hard.

If my OH is with me we go to spoon and I slide in and we just dose. She often uses the time to practice squeezing my cock with her pussy which is wonderful.

She says it is good for her pelvic floor and prefers me in there over balls or eggs.

I’m still young. No got a gf and wank a lot but still get quite regular wet dreams Especially when iv no done anything for a few days Gets annoying waking up with wet patch on my shorts

I'm 25 and I had my first wet dream couple of weeks ago....very weird feeling and to make it worse I sleep naked as well as my fiancé...she wasn't to happy as we were spooning. Rarely wank as I save myself for sex with my fiancé.

Diggerman Baz wrote:

I'm 36, and still have wet dreams. The OH always thought it was a puberty thing.

I was always led to believe the same, As its what they would tell you all those years back at school. How wrong they were.

I used to get them all the time but found if I wanked frequently then they’d stop which in a way was a sweet relief cause saved me having to keep cleaning up and changing bed covers in the middle of the night while still half asleep! But yes must admit in the moment of having one it was always so good like actually having the most perfect sex ever in a dream that felt real.

My husband occasionally has one. It’s usually during a particularly bizarre or sexy dream. He usually dry hu mps the mattress. I know this because I have woken and watched as he has cum more that once. I have even checked that he was genuinely asleep and came confirm that he was. Sometimes he wakes up after he’s wet the sheets but he has once just lay there in his cum. I have to tell you it’s very arrousing for me when he does this.

Gosh I mind my first when I woke up in the morning I hadn’t a clue what had happened lol I used to get them rather a lot in my mid teens