Men in lingerie

I have worn nothing other than lingerie for many years.At first wife was a little apprehensive.Once she realised just how happy and content it makes me and how much i love wearing lingerie,French Maid outfits,dresses at home,skirts etc etc she said she was more than happy with it.She gets extra work done around the house,sex whenever she wants as i’m always horny and says her friends tell her how i look at least ten years younger which she puts down to my happy and content lifestyle.She used to be shy when we first met but with my feminine and dressing side blooming with lots of sex it has opened up a whole new world of kink to her which she also loves.

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What style have you got? I’ve bought one as something of an experiment for our summer holiday as my kink is very much limited to lingerie til now.
Mine’s a simple pants and crop top style, just to see how it works out. I’ve tried it on and yeah it’s fun, but just not quite the same as lingerie.

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High leg thongs mainly.

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Nice. There are a couple of one-pieces I think might look and feel ok too but again, I’m not sure it’ll have the same thrill/kink as lingerie.

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Hi Marbles. My gay bi straight comment was not regarding the person wearing it, though I admit it read wrong. It was meant more as a discussion around who are the people that find men in lingerie attractive and why. I am sure there are multiple reasons, the femininity of it, control, power, something different and sexy etc. as I wrote it I realised I love my OH in men’s underwear, and I am straight and wouldn’t be attracted to a man in the same underwear. Kinda arguing with myself whilst thinking allowed. No offence meant.

A women in men’s underwear is attractive to me, but why? I think wearing something of mine is part of it. The conflicting sexual stereotypical appearance and because it’s a new outfit to idolise.

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Ah, ok. No offence taken. But I’d still argue that suggesting lingerie on a man is only attractive to gay/bi/trans is a bit restrictive.
My OH is a little like me in that neither of us really know what it is we both like about it, we just know we do. Some times it’s just a silly, fun thing to do, other times it touches on the deep seated psychology of gender and sexuality. In the same way that it’s possible for a completely hetero man who has no other cross-dressing urges and no ambition to “be” a woman to just enjoy wearing bra and knicks, it’s also possible for a completely hetero woman to find lingerie on a man attractive just because she does. In the same way that lingerie-wearing doesn’t mean a man wants to attract other men, it also means women who find it attractive aren’t automatically attracted to other women.
In the same scenario as your OH wearing men’s underwear. It’s just the other way around.
She isn’t attractive because she looks like a man by wearing it, it doesn’t mean she wants to be a man and by finding it attractive doesn’t mean you find men attractive.
It is what it is - someone wearing underwear intended primarily for the opposite sex.

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I’m the same in that I don’t know why I do it. I get the urge, put on whatevers to hand, suddenly that urge goes and everything feels so much better.
The mystery of not knowing I think can be quite sexy to some people.

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Now we are talking and requests haha x

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I think I just have a little fetish with it plus I love my legs and bum in them haha x

You my friend are my type of guy love it love it love it

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Maybe we should start a appreciation group again your my type of guy love it

I am a straight guy with a cheeky kink

Another my type of guy there is loads of us here

I feel a community coming on x

I love it to the oh is also coming round a lot faster than I thought although I’ve not got to the cleaning stage yet x

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I do have a few picture I love it and showing off the OH always says she wishes she had my legs x

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I like wearing my partners things. Makes me feel closer to him and I can smell his pheromones on them. Like he is with me and I’m carrying a part of him with me when he’s not around…

Just wondering if wearing feminine underwear and clothing for some makes you feel closer to your partner too?

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How do I know if I can do that haha I am little green and newish on here

I do love to show off a little x

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Not closer as such more fantasy excitement something I shouldn’t do turns me on makes me feel sexy I like the feel on my skin to I’d say I have a little kink

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Maybe one day x

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Oh my God!

I had tentatively mentioned to my wife that, in addition to wearing women’s knickers, I would like to try stockings and suspenders.

To her eternal credit she seemed quite happy with the idea but when we went shopping at the weekend we couldn’t find anything at all.

This morning though she was clearing out her underwear drawer and she found a basic black suspender belt and some opaque black stockings so she suggested that I might try them on.

She helped me with the back clips then I put on a pair of my black knickers.
To be honest we both just stood and stared. They looked really good and felt absolutely amazing. I was instantly rock hard inside the knickers.
She said that I should keep them on so I’m still wearing them now and she wants me to keep them on when she whips me later today.

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She didn’t whip me. She used the paddle instead.
The stockings and suspenders added so much to the whole experience for both of us.

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Wow you my friend are my type of guy I am turned on let alone you haha

Very sexy

I love the feel to my skin and how I feel in them very sexy

See you on the catwalk x

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