Crossdressing is a hot topic lingerie fetish are quite common
What do women thing to men in sexy underwear ?
It’s not a kink for me if my partner isn’t into it. Confidence is the most attractive thing a man can have.
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What if your partner was ? What’s your opinion
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Then absolutely fine. I used to have a sissy maid sub, he always looked good in lingerie.
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Interesting I need a poll for everyone yes or no haha
They say curiosity killed the cat did it ?
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Sometimes I think it does, but not always. Sometimes we have a strong fantasy that we think will be really hot and kinky, so we explore it and then discover that it was much better left as a fantasy.
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Personally I’m not a fan but if you wander through the threads, it’s clear that others appreciate it.
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So true not every fantasy’s need playing out
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Its not a kink im into but if hubby expressed an interest i would certainly explore it with him. If it made him feel sexy and confident i would have no problem indulging it for him.
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There are lots of threads about this already, have a read at the differing opinions there.
If you’re on mobile, scroll to the bottom and click on related and that’ll bring the threads up. Happy reading 
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I’ve shared my lingerie-wearing kink with maybe half a dozen GFs in the past and, obviously, now my OH.
The reactions have varied from uncontrollable laughter (which I was ok with…it is meant to be fun right?), not because I looked a bit ridiculous but more because it proved what a good sport I was in response to a bit of a dare, right through to what can only be described as her dropping everything and us getting it on there and then.
Some girls like the idea because it’s a man showing an empathetic feminine side, some like to humiliate their man by making him wear lingerie, others just think it looks hot.
I’ve never had a bad or negative reaction. If it was someone who I thought wouldn’t like it I probably wouldn’t have much else in common with them anyway.
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@Stiflersdad
I positively encourage any man to wear lingerie as it’s a personal choice for men and why should a woman have an issue
As others say - it’s all for fun and a bit of a kink - but a good kink
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I did have a GF who said my legs looked better in fishnets than hers did. Does that count?
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Love it some fantasy’s should be played out for sure
It’s a positive kink I like expressing myself
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May I be the first to randomly call it but damn that’s a nice bum in your profile photo! 
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I agree everything is worth a go to see if you like it. But some women will genuinely not be up for it and I suppose it could be as simple as if it doesn’t float their boat. I wonder if it’s a straight, gay, bi thing? I doubt it as I am straight but live a women in men’s boxers 
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A man wanting to wear lingerie doesn’t mean he’s gay, and being gay doesn’t mean he wants to be a woman either. That’s really quite a narrow minded and ignorant view I’m afraid.
Lingerie-wearing is widely acknowledged as something that a lot of men do for a whole variety of reasons regardless of their own sexuality and although usually linked to the feminine side of someone’s personality, isn’t indicative of them wanting to necessarily be or become female, nor wanting to appear attractive to other men.
Lingerie wearing is also often separate to full cross-dressing in as much as for a lot of men their indulgence begins and ends with just lingerie/underwear.
I do it and enjoy it for a mixture of reasons and yet if you met me you’d never, ever guess as nothing about the way I look, speak or behave suggests I go to bed wearing a black and red cami-suspender and stockings, or do household chores wearing a French maid set, or have a lazy Sunday breakfast in a pastel green bralette and Brazilians.
In another thread, someone described it as being like an addiction and that certainly strikes a chord with me. I know it’s “wrong”, I know people would tell me I shouldn’t do it, and yet that just makes me want to do it more. And then afterwards, just like an addiction, I feel incredibly self-conscious, telling myself I should stop.
But I get a thrill from it, seeing myself in gorgeous lingerie and thinking “Oh my god! Look at you!”, it’s a release, a bit of silly fun, it fcuks with normal gender roles and sometimes can be damn sexy believe it or not. It also brings me closer to my OH as it lays bare a more feminine side of me (not just visually) which makes her feel secure and appreciated and I feel closer to her simply through the intimacy of actually putting on girls lingerie. It’s also incredibly good fun choosing and trying different styles as whatever I wear invariably does look slightly comical and a man in lingerie will never, ever not look like he’s in drag to a greater or lesser extent.
I’ve never seen my OH not smirk, smile or outright laugh when she sees me in lingerie. Sometimes it’s a coy little “Awww, he’s trying to be like me, how sweet” smile, other times it’s uncontrollable “Oh my god have you ANY idea how daft you look?” laughter. Both of these reactions are incredibly sexy in my book.
Try it some time. You (and your OH) might be surprised.
(Apologies for the long post. Just wanted to off load a bit)
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Fantastic and honest post @marbles1.
In my case, like you, I’m a perfectly straight hetro male who has been married to my beautiful wife for over 33 years. But part of me just loves buying & wearing sexy stylish knickers designed for females. I still can’t fully understand why this brings me so much deep down joy & happiness, and I find I’m more relaxed and I have discovered a new feminine side of me when in knickers. I only wish I knew what my OH thought of my choices of underwear as she has expressed a wish not to be involved in my new journey.
I guess this answers the original question posed by @Stiflersdad as my OH doesn’t actively approve. I’m hoping one day she will 
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Something else to bear in mind is just how incredibly comfortable most lingerie is too.
I always thought it’d be tight or itchy or whatever but even the more extravagant items can be super-soft and easy to wear, not withstanding underwired bras some times digging in a bit and suspender straps tugging, but apart from that…. 
The couple of baby dolls I’ve got are superb nightwear for those really hot summer nights and actually seem to keep me cooler than being naked.
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I too am a perfectly straight hetero male who just loves wearing lingerie, bikinis etc. Being single means I feel so free.
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