Wouldnt get me swimming in tbe sea … the north sea rarely gets above 6 degrees hahaha
we are going on a catamaran trip in november to the carribbean. I would love to wear a speedo but I know the crew we are going with wouldn’t care for it - so board shorts it is. I do prefer how a speedo fits though. However good for you we need to feel good about ourselves as well!!
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I wish my wife liked that - she is embarrassed even though I am actually pretty fit
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Good to hear that you enjoyed the experience @Janes. As you say, and as I mentioned in my previous post, it’s great to share with women the pleasure of wearing sexy swimwear. After all, they can’t have all the enjoyment themselves! 
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@Craig1234 …The wee man would have the polo neck pulled right up, if you know what i mean. 
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@Janes …Its still a resounding !! NO !!. Men do not and never will look good in one… id put it on a par with a woman walking about with a bra on and no knickers… it just looks wrong.
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I have no issue and like to wear thongs for underwear but wouldn’t wear one to the beach or in public. Maybe if it was a private house with a pool.
Surely @Iwill this is about personal preference rather than whether something may be considered wrong. I choose to wear a swim thong because I enjoy it, not because I want to parade around in front of others. Hence I do so somewhere secluded as previously mentioned.
There are a proportion of men on here, myself included, who enjoy female lingerie because of the pleasure, excitement etc. that derives from doing so despite how we might actually look. Yes, it’s true that this is done in the privacy of one’s home but the principal is the same, in that it’s a personal decision based on what someone gets their enjoyment from.
To follow your argument, it could be said that some women shouldn’t be wearing certain swimwear because it doesn’t look right on them. But this would miss the point. It’s all about what someone wears to feel good, gets their pleasure from etc.
So, for me, wearing a swim thong is fine in an appropriate place, just as being naked is. I think that life’s simple pleasures should be embraced rather than denied. Hope this all makes sense.
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I was trying to find the words to reply to IWill but couldn’t articulate what I feel and how it feels. But you have put it perfectly. So thank you 
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@SPstroker64 … Im sorry, but you failed to see the mock scolding in my comments…I thought that was clearly understood with my exaggerated dialogue and with the laughing emoji in my initial comment.
In short I was taking the proverbial.
If you want to wear a bit of dental floss, go for it and don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. 
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