An update to my comment above.
My OH does still have her red lingerie set 
and I have posted pics in the lingerie photo upload forum https://lovehoneyforum.com/t/lingerie-photo-uploads/257652 
The red knicks were amazing to wear partly because I know my OH has worn these in the past, and wearing the red bra was super sexy but still not sure it’s my thing but I can now understand the attraction of why you might want to 
