I absolutely love having toys and bondage in the bedroom. I suggested it to her and we both love it. I would probably be the more adventurous one as il try anything but she loves all our toys.
I love to use toys with my mrs. We are relatively young (30) it was my idea to try them, she wasn't all that fussed to start. So we ordered a cheapo one from China. 3 months later we have a huge collection all from LH (my fault not hers) as I just order stuff to surprise her. One thing she won't do is use on her own though. Not sure why! Told her I have no problems with her doing so but she just won't entertain it.
I’m 22 and she is 25 and we’ve been using toys for pretty much our whole relationship, sex is a important part of the relationship for us, so making sure it is as pleasurable for both parties is key, and if the toys do that then they’re getting involved, just have to be open with each other about what you like and want and if pleasing your partner is important to you they’ll be open to any suggestions they throw at you.
Good luck finding yours 😁
It was myself who brought toys in to our sex lives - now we have about 20!
My wife has always had toys and the collection has grown and grown. She gives a splendid display to anyone watching and cums time after time in a session. She also uses them on me, her sub, infront of her friends, she also allows her friends to use them on me. So toys have always been there and before me. It was only the first night that gave me a shock, since then I just say bring them on.
My OH is very open to sex toys and bedroom play, in fact he's bought most of the toys in our collection! He's been very open from the start of our relationship and has encouraged me quite a lot, it's been amazing. If he cares and thinks it's important that you are enjoying yourself too he shouldn't have any problem with toys and other suggestions. So they are out there!
Me and captain met on an adult friend finder site so before we physically met we knew a lot about each others sexual preferences. He actually bought me a rabbit on our first date 😉
We've been together nearly 9 years and married 5 now and our toy collection is massive. Some toys are his, some are mine and some are for us to use together.