Mental/Predicament Bondage

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I decided to start a new thread for this topic because it’s such an interesting idea and it might help some newly kinky people. A lot of people are familiar with standard bondage, but let’s talk about mental and predicament bondage. There’s a subtle but important difference.

Mental bondage: could be anything from “stay in this position and don’t move” to an example given by forum friend @JGood , of holding a piece of tissue paper under both hands and not letting it rip. I myself had an experience with a pair of handcuffs tied to the bed with a piece of cotton thread. If the thread broke, the pleasure stopped. I couldn’t hold onto the headboard.

Predicament bondage: more common in S&M, it could be that certain movement triggers a certain reaction. For example, a rope tied around a hair bun - if the submissive lowers her head, it pulls on an anal hook inserted into her rear. If she lofts her chin, it pulls on her nipple clamps.

Are there any other mental/predicament bondage enthusiasts here? Let’s talk ideas :smiling_face:

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Or @Tenshadesandme mentions you and gives you homework to do at 1:13 in the morning that’s more than mental torture.

A lot of what we describe is fun but only if consent is given to play the game and the rules are set before and agreed upon

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You make me work, I make you work. All is fair :wink::joy:

Yes, fun is always paramount, at least in my dynamics anyway. Some enjoy strict, not all of us do. That’s why communication is so important.

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The cotton thread is a simplistic and delicious way to play.

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I didn’t know this thing had a name. I get my partner to kneel at a corner, nose on the wall. Or hold books with arms open while he gets spanked.

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Yes, it’s called mental bondage. The submissive isn’t physically restrained, but they certainly don’t want to move :blush:

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Do you have other scenarios? Looking for new ideas :wink:

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@lilly30 is this still for you to spank your bad boy of a partner?

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Not to spank, more of me enjoying seeing him in predicament

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How is he with yoga poses and anal pegging?

Seeing how long he can hold something like a downward dog pose while you work the anal beads or vibrating butt plug or prostate massager.

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He doesnt do anal but I get the idea

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Wand to the testicles :flushed::joy:

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Which wand? :wink:

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I like your thinking and why not try them all.

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Have you it anyone here on the forum done any body painting with floggers, canes and paddles? Using your partner as the canvas but then they can role over on to a large A2 piece of paper.

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A paddle with 3 or 4 different colours piled on the paddle or bottom and then smacked as it explodes everywhere :joy::heart_eyes:

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Who’s cleaning?

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Not you :wink:

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I love love love the idea of predicament bondage and have done since before I can remember (perhaps as a result of watching too many Bond movies?). My mind is constantly constructing new and exciting scenarios along this theme, usually with me facing the predicament.

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It’s like a sexy scenario that makes you think, isn’t it? What’s not to love about that?

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