Curious about trying some mild BDSM, any advice?
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Hellooooo, im sure people will have loads.
Depending if your into tied up, submissive etc
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@mmoody1961 welcome to the forum
Bdsm is fun and I would always recommend firstly talking with your partner on what you want - and would you take turns as one needs to be the dom and the other is the submissive
Always have a safety word - most use traffic light system (green good to go - red stop)
Spanking is great - consider positions (over the knee / across the table and so forth) and then choose the toy - paddle / crop/ cane or just hand
We like to dress up with BDSM - my husband will dress up as a maid / school girl and I will then bend them over to spank - so you may also consider role reversal as well
Have fun 
Hello and welcome to the forum,
Today might just be your lukcky day! I’ve been away from the forum for a few days - to start a new ‘accidental’ poly relationship of my own - so to come back to your question feels like a great time to introduce myself 
I’m Elena, an 18-year BDSM practitioner and a 16-year BDSM submissive/switch/brat (my dear friend @JGood still can’t decide what label best suits me 
) . I ruin a blog based on BDSM education/sex, primarily for disabled people, but it has been (and hopefully is) resourceful for able-bodied people, too. I’ve mentored a few people who are new to this lifestyle, including my new partner/Dom
If you like, you can start with our free guide to BDSM here, which has lots of useful information on it. Feel free to browse however you like though!
I hope you enjoy my writing, this new world of kink, and the Lovehoney forum
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Many questions:
Are you in a relationship and want to try it with you partner or are you thinking of going to a professional?
Are you more interested in being the dom or sub or maybe a bit of both?
What has led you to get interested?
What kind of practices / toys get you going?
BDSM is quite a broad church so narrowing it down would be helpful.
Welcome to the forum! Maybe try out a blindfold and some bed restraints, then can explore sensual touching and spanking perhaps