Mirror play

Hey,

So aside from being seen in porn videos, the idea of playing and watching myself in the mirror felt like an incredibly vain and strange thing to do.

Then in a self help book I was reading to address improving self confidence. It suggested exploring yourself and making love to yourself rather than just racing to orgasm. An extension of this then went to watching myself in the mirror.

Has anyone else explored this? And did you find it strange?

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A mirror? No.
But I have come to enjoy looking down and watching myself masturbate. It’s empowering being turned on by watching yourself.

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I have watched myself when playing and did not find that as intense or arousing as using the full mirror. I’ve never experienced being turned on by watching myself, I was already turned on and just looked out of curiosity. The mirror added a whole new dimension and cannot wait to try it again

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We have a full length mirror facing the side of the bed but, as we’re both in our 70s, its not a pretty sight.

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Course it it, it’s all beautiful​:heart_eyes:

Have a full length mirror by the bed too, I look at it a lot while me and the other half are doing stuff, and I do like to watch myself as I’m dressing in something nice, but can’t say as I watch myself madturbate. Maybe I’ll give it a go​:smiley:

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Sorry nope, scared for 7 years bad luck, looking in a mirror woukd definitely crack it :rofl:

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I actually also tried this recently… it is definitely interesting to try it out! It did make me feel a little vain at first but after a little while it was pretty hot!

We all need to find ourselves beautiful so give it a go, may surprise yourself

It was a real suprise to me as to how much I enjoyed it, definitely will cdo it again though and soon!

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You should try it with a pair of panties on, works for me​:laughing:

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Yes! :blush: We have a large one in front of the bed and another to the side. And I wish we had more. :face_with_hand_over_mouth:

At first it was a little strange, especially looking at myself, I almost had a feeling of shame, but I got over that quickly… because it’s so exciting! :heart_eyes:

We can see ourselves in a way that would never be possible otherwise, and it’s really really hot​:fire: to see what we’re doing.

Add: I definitely like watching myself masturbate too, but since it’s usually for him to watch, he gets in the way! :joy:

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“give it a go”

Oh we do.

We also have spreader bars mounted to the top of the mirror so when she hangs me from them to whip me I can see her whip arm moving and watch my own body react to the blows.

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You sound as though you are feeling a bit embarrassed or even ashamed about enjoying it. Don’t! Just enjoy.

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We once stayed in a hotel in Venice and the headboard of our bed was a full length mirror. Wow did we has some super sex watching ourselves in all sorts of positions. I loved watching my husband’s penis sliding in and out of my wet vagina.

This wonderful experience prompted up to buy a floor to ceiling door mirror wardrobe from IKEA. We often make love in front of it. :sunglasses:

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I love watching myself play in front of the mirror. I also enjoy videoing myself and watching the video back, and it’s helped me to learn lots of new things about my body and how it responds to arousal. I personally think it’s a great idea for both body confidence and working towards being more sexually open.

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We dont have big mirrors in the house but we did play in a hotel once that had a large mirror in the bathroom. My wife stood behind me, reaching around to play with me. I found it a massive turn on! It was handy as we then jumped right in the shower and I returned the favour!

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I’m just gonna hands up admit itL I love mirrors. We have two in the bedroom (including a full-length one) and one in every room, apart from our kitchen. I make eye contact with myself and smile at myself often because, like, why not? Someone’s gotta appreciate me, right?!

I’ve never played in front of a mirror, but I have watched myself masturbate. I have had sex in front of a mirror a few times as well; watching him Dominate me was a whole other level of crazy hot :blush:

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@AwesomeT that’s a great idea. Also, welcome to the community :slight_smile:

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We have a few mirrors throughout the house that get used for such. I definitely love masturbating in front of the mirror and have enjoyed watching myself try new things!
My wife will occasionally take a sexy selfie in a mirror and send it to me. One night that she pegged me she enjoyed looking at herself in the mirror wearing the dildo and I became very aroused watching her play with it!

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