I hate having a female cycle. Wish I was really a boy instead of being only halfway one.
My cycle has changed recently - shortened so that everything is more frequent. And the lovely surprise this month is that ovulation feels more intense. Normally I’m horny during this time, but its manageable. This time my drive is super focused and specific. Sex with my female partners feels nice like always, but I’ve got a bone-deep desire for my husband to cum in me. The desire is so strong it became a physical itch, and waiting for him to get home from work today was really stressful and unbearable.
The irony is that I’m not capable of conceiving, so all this is pointless misery. My brain knows it, but my instincts are more powerful than I’ve felt in the past. Itchy cervix, itchy g-spot, swollen glands, itchy nipples - am I the only one who deals with these things? Is sex until I’m exhausted the only form of relief? I wish there was some sort of cooling, numbing medicine (besides semen) to take the edge off
The only upside has been that orgasms have been out-of-this-world amazing the last day or so, and I’ve been able to cum hard even during PIV. Normally I have to ejaculate to have a big orgasm and PIV blocks that…so this experience is different. I have been really vocal too, without realizing it, which is a bit embarrassing.
That sounds quite unpleasant! I’d suggest talking to a doctor, maybe there’s something they can do for you although it would probably be hormone related treatments which some people don’t like using, but you never know, there might be something else. I hate my cycle too, I don’t identify as a woman anymore and having a period is pointless and upsetting not to mention painful because it flares up another medical issue at the same time. I’ve been using the combined pill continuously for the last 6 months so no periods or any annoying hormone and mood fluctuations. It has it’s downsides but the positives currently outway the negatives for me. There are numbing creams that you can buy for external use - lidocane being one of them but that might be a bit too strong. I used to use a spray from an alternative health store that was very soothing when my nerve condition was causing burning / tingling of the vulva, it was slightly numbing and cooling but was totally natural, i’ll see if i can remember what it was called.
Edit to add: it was called salcura topida but having looked at the instructions it’s for external intimate use to relieve thrush symptoms so not really what I was using it for!
Thanks, @Kitty-Cat01 I did end up trying some topical lidocaine today. Of course, it isn’t for internal use, but in combination with anti-itch cream did calm down the nipple itches quite a bit. I was going at them til they bled. I might try to get some of that salcura stuff… but I won’t be able to use it until the next cycle due to waiting for shipping.
Yes, my hormones are a mess. The joys of being intersex. I refused hormone treatments last year as the levels weren’t ridiculously unbalanced, but it could be a factor. I’m wondering if something has changed. My cycle used to be 28-29 days and really regular, but now its dropped to 21 days. I hate medical stuff. Ugh.
Even though its Thanksgiving, my husband has found a way to have sex with me 6 times today so far. Quickies, mostly, but enough to scratch the itch. Now if I could just pay somebody to get between my legs for 2 straight hours and do nothing but rub those swollen glands and scratch my G-spot…
Despite what it’s says or it is intended to do when my wife mistakenly grabbed it thinking it was lube we both went completely numb down there, it was literally the feeling similar to having a dead arm you can see it moving you know it’s there but absolutely no feeling whatsoever, and it took hours to wear off even after trying to scrub it off
I just got through another miserable cycle. I tried the Tracy Cox thing…clearly it does different stuff for different people. I got numb for a little bit, then super tingly and it actually enhanced the cravings. Also increased the constant urination urge. I gave the rest to a partner who has orgasm issues.
So far, the only thing to take the edge off is topical lidocaine and an ice cube on my glands and urethra opening. I guess this is my life for the moment, 3-4 days out of every 3 weeks.
