Big big hug to you Ember 😘
I feel for you sweetheart 🤗
Your man fluff may have a change of heart, he may just be taking time out to think things over. He could have feelings for you and doesn't know where it will leave him because you are already in a relationship. Obviously I am reading between the lines without knowing all of the facts but his emotions could be an issue here. Have you talked that over with him?
There were some warning signs from the start- our first night together he ran off halfway through because he thought it was gentlemanly to not cum on/in me...which was the weirdest thing I've heard...
Otherwise, I mean, it wasn't sluggish, we did it a reasonable amount. The thing is, it DID start to mess with my self esteem and how I felt about myself. I did feel like something was wrong with me.
The manfluff has alot going on with his uni stuff and he seems to be on a bit of a downer. I tried to stick with it but he's made it very clear he doesn't want to talk.
I value everyones opinions and advice here. I don't take offense to anything said here. Other viewpoints are always welcome, it may be something I haven't thought of. Thank you all. I'm feeling a bit more human today x
Have you considering seeking sexual counseling or theraphy with your fiance? I am not sure if people specialize in that in the UK like here in the states but there is probably something going on with your fiance either realted to his sexuality, sex preferences or in his subscience that could be discussed, resloved and worked through together?
I've suggested it, he freaks out. He says he's addicted to masturbating and if he's with me he's so concerned if I've enjoyed it or not that he finds it harder to get his pleasure.
Feeling so-so today. Moving on a little more each day. Thank you loves <3
how about some kind of councilling? sex counciling if thats a thing ?
Gladto hear its a little easier Ember