I found myself holding back when I got mine aswell. But once I stopped that, under 1 minute is very doable. I’d say anywhere from 1-2min is my normal. The next takes slightly longer.
I’d say if on a budget, look at the Pro40 @_MrandMrsM - If you are looking at investing in your collection and wanting the latest and greatest, maybe look at the Womanizer Next.
I have both, and both are fantastic products. If you can get the Pro40 on sale for £80 that’s a steal The price of the Next is what I believe puts most people off. Which is a real shame.
@_MrandMrsM I would add the We-Vibe Melt to consideration if you find you like the air/suction style but want it to work well partnered. Wifey also find it gentler than the Pro40. It’s definitely our number one toy. Wifey still says the Pro40 is her favorite all things being equal, but she rarely reaches for it anymore.
Have you and your wife tried anal at all, either partnered sex or masturbation? Although not a woman myself, I know some women can enjoy multiple, powerful orgasms as result of anal penetration. Maybe something to experiment with if her clit becomes over sensitive?
It’s possible for guys too. I’ve been able to have multiple orgasms through prostate play. It’s different from a penile orgasm however is very pleasurable.
Guys really need to explore their buttholes as they can unlock amazing pleasure.
Counterpoint: my wife loves anal with a good sized dildo vaginally as well but she wants it to be the one and only glorious orgasm of the session and is completely spent after one. Early in our addition of anal to the repertoire we tried it as the finale after getting her off orally and discovered that the prior orgasms had taken enough of an edge off her arousal that the anal was less pleasurable than just building up to it.
Moral of the story: just try stuff. Everybody’s different! And also, sometimes we change, too!
Fair enough. As the saying goes, different strokes for different folks. Everyone has their preferences to what they like and how they respond. It’s all about experimenting.
Mrs Rode_A doesn’t orgasm vaginally or with oral. But clitoral orgasms are another story ! We achieve these with toys - usually a Womaniser or her vibrating dildo. She can have 2 or 3 with them or sometimes it keeps going in what I call a rolling orgasm. Absolutely love laying there watching her while touching her breasts and nipples and stroking myself. When she’s had enough or her clit is too sensitive she’ll say I need you inside me , it’s your turn to cum ! By this stage I’m ready to go and never last too long before giving her what she wants !
Your wife sounds like she has exactly the same experience with the Pro40 as my partner, she’ll only use it for a very quick squirt before then swapping to a wand vibrator and dildo for a longer masturbation session, it’s crazy powerful haha!
Only really just learning about the pleasures of the prostate. Had probably the best orgasm of my life last weekend courtesy of the OH and her finger had me a quivering mess, even just thinking about now it gets me weak
My OH is definitely a one orgasm at a time type of girl! I’ve known her to have several small ‘shudders’ and just keep going to a final explosive orgasm. She says the shudders are not mini orgasms, just waves of pleasure before the real thing
My wife is 99% of the time a one and done clitoral orgasm girl. Usually with a suction toy, vibrating toy or her fingers. I’d say 75% of the time it’s while I’m also inside of her, 10% with a dildo in her and the rest just the clit stimulation alone.
Last summer after she had a mild orgasm she said “I think I can go again” which was heaven to my ears because I get such pleasure from seeing her feel good. I’d go all day pleasuring her without orgasming myself, or at least during that time. In fact I wish she would take me up on that!
The price of the Next is what I believe puts most people off. Which is a real shame.
had me a quivering mess, even just thinking about now it gets me weak 
