Happy New Year everyone.
Forgive me if this is a common topic but after a pleasantly busy festive period in the bedroom, my wife was wondering why, after she has orgasmed, she finds it hard to do so again and becomes very sensitive. She usually comes from clitoral stimulation and can come again from PIV soon after but was wanting to see if she could keep going and if she might squirt as a result.
How do other ladies find this?
I canāt speak for a womanās experience with multiple orgasms, but in regards to squirting my wife and I have found itās a different type of stimulation she needs for squirting than if she just wanted to have an orgasm, although she can sometimes squirt at the same time as orgasm depending on what weāre doing.
The key to squirting isnāt always more orgasms, but try stimulating different places.
Iām kind of āone and doneā when it comes to clitoral stimulation too. I can go with PIV after a clitoral orgasm and probably have multiple vaginal orgasms, but after one, my clit clocks off 
I can have multiple orgasms and tend to change it around so one area doesnt become too sensitive. Might use my wi vibe melt on my clit while hubby uses his fingers on me then piv then i have a dual g spot and clit stimulator that i use afterwards. If it is a particularly strong orgasm i normally need a breather for five or ten minutes before i can go again.
From my partners experience with squirting, a āsquirtā is actually different to an orgasm, so itās best for her to aim to either squirt or orgasm. For my partner, she can only squirt with a womanizer and it takes her about 1 minute, whereas for an orgasm she would use a vibrator and it takes her 5 to 15 minutes to orgasm.
So with my wife she will orgasm from clit stimulation with her love honey rose. Her first is very intense as she works pretty hard to get there due to meno but says itās so totally worth it. She also gets very sensitive. So we the go Doggy and I put my arms around her and lift the back. Will she again uses her rose. The change of angle makes her clit less sensitive and she can cum. Try it 
Iām in the multiple orgasms from Clitoral Stimulation club - over the new year I managed 8 before deciding that was enough.
(Iād be interested to know with women who can have multiple, what the average is).
I have girly friends who think Iām not normal 
My female partner has between 1 and 3 orgasms in each sex or masturbation session, but the most orgasms sheās ever had in one session is 4 orgasms, which was plenty for her haha! So your 8 orgasms is pretty good going haha!
And I usually pace myself in my sex and masturbation sessions with my partner so that I have my 1 orgasm at the end of the session (timed up at the same time as her last orgasm) but on special occasions (that require a lot of focus haha) I can have 2 orgasms, but that is quite tricky and can take up to 20 minutes for me to finally have a second one!
My orgasms do get stronger the more I have, which also seems not the norm according to my girly friends. Guess Iām just strange
Oh has had 2 before, but like you say they are few and fair between for him. He normally waits till Iām ready to finish - as he says, ladies first 
Thatās very interesting, for my partner itās a completely random order for which orgasms are better, I donāt think itās strange though as that does make sense haha!
Ahh Iām exactly the same as him and haha definitely āladies firstā is the respectful thing to do
I am like you i usually have a minimum of three but have had six or seven depends on the length of the session. Also the first one is not as strong as the last one and each one gets stronger until i feel i cant take any more at which point i cant move.
If pushed my wife can come 2 or 3 times in succession but she really likes to stop after 1.
She squirts through clitoral stimulation only and the longer she takes to come the more she squirtsm
Well this mornings sessions delivered my first ever squirting orgasm.
Mr Wetla was doing his usual g spot stimulation whilst i gave him a blow job, when i had sudden urge to pee - i then exploded. the fountain that followed was catastrophic, i was euphoric from the orgasm and mr wetla was just amazed by the volume of fluid. he knows i can squirt/gush loads at the best of times but this mornings sessions delivered was another level. i now realise the peeing sensation is me entering the orgasm stage.
The orgasm was far different from piv orgasm!
We quickly changed love blanket and continued our session, missionary, doggy spanking, light caning and even the tawse, until we climaxed.
Being the greedy girl i am and mr wetla reading the cues he started to stimulate my g spot again. Well i flooded and flooded and flooded following back to back g spot stimulated orgasms.
Iāve unlocked something today that was amazing- age of 43 and loving the new sexual experiences my body allows.
what started out as celebratory back to school sex session turned out to be an amazing experience for me, experiencing multiple orgasm in one sex session
Mr Wetla and I have kept looking at each other all day - knowing weāre both hoping for a repeat tonight.
Which Womanizer do you guys use?
My wife started squirting a couple of years ago at the age of 70. Better late than neverā
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Samantha here. Im very lucky and I frequently have multiple (10 plus) orgasms in a single session.
The majority are from penetration, vaginal or anal. If ben is giving me oral then I can only handle one or 2 as my clit is too sensitive.
When being penetrated, once I have my first orgasm its almost a continuous wave of orgasms. It sounds strange but if weve planned a long session, I do my best to delay my 1st orgasm. Especially with anal as anal orgasms are more powerful and Im exhausted after 20 mins.
In terms of squirting, only penetration has that effect on me.
Not at all uncommon. Many women - especially those who cum primarily from clitoral stimulation - require a refractory period similar to men. The clitoris is a homologous structure to the penis, meaning it develops from the same tissue in the womb. You can imagine (or know firsthand) what itās like if the head of your penis (analogous to the clitoral head) is stimulated after youāve already cum. The difference between most men and womenās refractory periods is that the clit can be ready for more stimulation usually faster than the penis will fill back up.
My wife is usually a one-and-done gal. She says usually the second one takes more work and is less rewarding and itās not worth it. Sheās especially sensitive after cumming from oral or her Melt/Womanizer on her clit (my favorite recent oral development has been working on getting my tongue perfectly still and flat on her clit as she tips over into orgasm with a tight seal of my lips around so that she has the warm and wet sensation through her O without further stimulation to irritate her). Sheās more inclined to go for a second if the first was from her being on top cowgirl or reverse, but even then she only went for 2 once this year and I had to go back to 2022 to find her shooting for 3. Add to it we had a period of some years where I caused her to feel a lot of pressure to achieve multiple orgasms and killed her enjoyment of it. On the other hand, when sheās masturbating alone if weāre apart she will often go for two as theyāre more āquick and dirtyā and less built up than having sex together.
Anyway - no, not at all uncommon.
As to squirting - if thatās a goal, use the search function to find the Wiki and other great posts with plenty of tips to help out. Itās a strange paradox of a thing that is more elusive if you shoot for it, but unlikely if youāre not trying. My wife has squirted just a handful of times and neither were trying. Once was on the 3rd of 3 orgasms while being bound, teased, and overstimulated for over an hour and she felt I pulled the orgasm out of her and she squirted all over the bedspread through to the mattress. Second time was less dramatic, but just a very amped up and aroused oral session with some calm and well-placed fingering and was more of a gentle gush than a splashing amount.
We bought the Womanizer Pro40 as that had the best reviews (but is a bit of an older model) but she loves it so defintely worth it and it does the trick of making you squirt very quickly!
I will note the Pro40 is what I was using on my wife, along with our biggest dildo inside and she was restrained in our under-the-bed cuff system, the first time she squirted. But it has not been a regular thing. Her response to the Pro40 the first time she used it was āit felt like it was sucking the orgasm right out of meā and that she found part of the pleasure actually in fighting against it to make it really pull it out of her. Many of the reviews cite the āless than a minute to orgasmā but sheās consistently about 10-12 minutes whether Womanizer, Melt, or oral. I wonder if thereās some mental trick to not fighting it and just letting it roll, but she isnāt interested in the easy way to anything!