Does anyone else find a mum bod particularly attractive?
My wife is in her mid 30’s and is a little thicker around the legs/tummy than she used to be plus her boobs are a bit bigger too. She is always complaining about not being thin enough but I think she looks hotter than ever and also how women in the 30’s should look.
I almost feel guilty finding her more attractive now than in her 20’s because she disagrees so much.
We have both put on weight over the course of life, undoubtedly my wife has put on more than me, something I’ve never mentioned and never will unles for health reasons. We both exercise regularly, lane swim most mornings so for me our weight is what it is.
I find my wife hot for many reasons, body is only one although weight gain or not I’ll never complain about her big boobs
In answer to your question - absolutely! Neither I nor the missus look the same as we did in our twenties or thirties or forties - strange that!??? …sounds like you’d do well to play her Baz Luhrmann - Everybody’s Free To Wear Sunscreen
This thread does great things for my confidence, so thankyou. Being a thicker girly and being one that generally radiates kindness and warmth, it really knocks my confidence when my gym bro neighbour (he’s 34) tells me that I’m “not my type” - it comes across like “you’re not anyone’s type”, which means it kind of rings hollow when my husband compliments me and tells me that I am his.
I think also, in today’s world of social media, there’s a constant pressure to “look good”. I don’t like muscle men either: a bearded Dad bod with a brain and a good sense of humour? I just can’t help myself!
Yes I think social media doesn’t do my wife any favours too. It’s a terrible thing for knocking confidence. I’m a 5’8 man and so much of my social media is people saying women don’t find men under 5’10 attractive, it’s something that definitely sits in my mind and makes me compensate by going to the gym a lot. My wife always tells me she likes my height so maybe I should listen more!
I’m sure your husband isn’t lying, as I said I definitely find my wife the most attractive ever since she was just a little thicker/more curvy
We both in mid 50s and yeah same we both added weight but hey we love life and I think her weight is no issue she is gorgeous and love the way she is just like when we both in our early 30s
My father was 5’8 and three quarters (yes, they mattered!) and he was every bit the man. My husband is 5’11 and I tease him aboout being an inch shorter than a “real” man, but it’s a joke based on those sterotypes and he knows that. Height bears no significance in defining “real” men to me: a real man is in how he behaves.
I’m sure you’re lovely, and I’m sure your wife loves you too
Mrs Mike is in her early 30s. Following children she has gone from a size 10-12 to 14-16 and I cannot get enough of her curves, bigger thighs, bum, boobs. I love it!
They certainly are, they have character. Love Island types are not the norm, they’re primped, preened, filled, tanned into identikit clones of a standard set by the likes of Tik Tok and Instagram.
I’m on the opposite side of the fence @user817 I was told a shorter man wouldn’t go anywhere near me…and to find a taller man would be difficult. I was also told not to wear heels as men would find it intimidating…I’m 6ft tall I love being tall and I’ve been with shorter men and a few taller men too…those that have commented on my height and the age old “what you wearing heels for aren’t you tall enough?” comment just goes over my head nowadays. Obviously not the one for me.
Totally agree with @Tenshadesandme it’s how men behave and treat their partners and visa versa too…
And to answer the question yes mum bods are hot…love being curvy. Also dad bods too…I’d much rather have a dad bod than a preened greasy muscular gym bod.
Everyone to their own it wouldn’t do if we all were attracted to the same. But it’s the person inside first and foremost. You can change how you look but not who you really are.
True about society and most of porn but look at all the BBW videos out there.
My wife has put on weight too like most people do but I find her just as sexy as the day I met her. I know for awhile she was embarrassed because she started covering up with a towel after a shower when she never did in the past. And she didn’t like me touching her belly. Now while she would like to be thinner she seems ok with her body. She walk around the bathroom naked and doesn’t mind me running my hands across her belly. God I love her body!! And even more her mind which is the most important sex organ.
My wife’s body is amazing to me but she currently feels overweight after gaining a lot of weight during her 2nd pregnancy (baby is nearly 1yo now). I want her to feel good about herself and I still love everything about her sexy body just as much as I did when we were 22 or on our wedding day. I know she still wants to lose weight and get into a regular exercise routine which she hasn’t had since before children.
Though there’s no pressure from my side but her weight does seem to affect her enjoyment of sex, things are still very infrequent for us with our 2 x kiddos both under 4 she tells me she feels ‘cumbersome’ and craves the feeling of being fitter and stronger.
I will back her and support her however I can but I do feel bad that she doesn’t feel happier in her skin at times. I would love for her to post some pics on the forums here as everyone is so kind I’m sure a few compliments would be a confidence boost for her…
make sure to love and be proud of your mum bods girls everyone deserves to feel sexy and desired!