New to the site and experimenting with sex toys in general but after 2 very successful hauls on here me and the wife are planning a dirty weekend away so would like to know your must haves for a dirty weekend away. mainly looking for something new to surprise her with. so what are your suggestions!
I loved the Monogamy game in our mini break. It was a mix of romantic and kinky- made the break really memorable. You may want to bring along wine or alcohol too. =)
What we have tried so far already includes the bondage kit and we really enjoyed that, the hotel we are staying at has a 4 poster bed so already a whole load of ideas springing into my head for that.
She is not too keen on anal play, we have never really tried but she doesnt like the idea of it. Im not fussed either way but is she missing out on some extra pleasure?
The board game looks just like our thing, perfect for build up and we love a board game anyway (sad!).
Otherwise we have tried a bullet and cock rings (both vibe and not) so feeling more adventurous by the day. Up until we had both been quite big prudes! Enjoying a new openness in our sex life and fantasies.
i really enjoy anal and so does my partner. i was very adverse to it at first but now i enjooy it even more than vaginal. if you arent really fussed though i wouldnt push it as it does take quite a bit of work especialy if she isnt into it. if your into bondage i'd go for a good ball gag (candy one looks quite fun) and a nice spanker or how about a blindfold and something for a bit of sensation play as you will be in the best state to enjoy it as you wont have mundane things like housework on your mind. if going with the board game how about geting her one of the nice kimono/ dressing gowns so she doesnt get cold but you can still easily undress her if you get excited.
the for poster bed sounds amazing. dont forget some nice rope so you can take full advantage of it.
If your hotel room is an en-suite I would suggest using a massage candle (the warm oil feels amazing) followed by some bathtime/showertime fun with a waterproof vibrator or cock ring.
I've got a game I've been working on. All you need is a pack of card and some sex toys!
Obviously the more toys you have the more options you can have! E.g. If the 3 cards picked are 4 Clubs, 6 Hearts, 10 Diamonds, This would be Man, Massage with oil, Woman's Breast Nipples and stomach.
Game Rules: Shuffle pack and deal 3 cards
1st card: Black, Man does this task to Woman, Red card Woman does this to Man
2nd Card: Action
3rd Card: Area of body action to take place
2nd Card: Action
Ace
Kiss
2
Lick Chocolate
3
Lick Strawberry
4
Suck & use Tongue
5
Tickle
6
Massage/Stimulate with Hands using oil
7
Massage/Stimulate with other part of body (Not Hands)
8
Massage/Stimulate with Bullet Vibrator
9
Massage/Stimulate with Rabbit
10
Use Dildo
Jack
Spank/Slap/Rub
Queen
Tie Up/Blindfold then Stimulate
King
Use Cock/Pussy with Cock Ring
3rd Card: Area
Ace
Toes & Feet
2
Lips Mouth and Face
3
Calf's/Lower Part of Legs
4
Inner Thighs/Tops of Legs
5
Neck & Face
6
Ears
7
Arms Hands & Fingers
8
Back
9
Buttocks
10
Chest/Breast/Nipples & Stomach
Jack
Anal area
Queen
Balls/Clitoris
King
Cock/Pussy
Both of you purchase 3 new things in secret that you want to try, the anticipation will build over the time leading up to it and it will make it all that little bit more exciting.