During an exchange with another forum member @New2 , on a thread " when did you last masterbate" , it came about that we enjoy mutual masterbation with our partners… what about others members.
If you do, is it self masterbation watching your partner, or working on each other at the same time.?
You may never have tried it and find this thread helpful, or this may already be something you have fun doing.
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Me and the wife both like to watch each other masturbate, if we do it alone we sometimes video ourselves and send it to each other.
We also masturbate each other, usually at night with some passionate kissing.
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we mutual masturbate almost every time.
she has her vibrator and i have my butt plug in.
i love hearing her come i usually just come on myself but i love when i have the opportunity to come on her boobs.
The one thing I would change is after I finish on her chest for her to roll over on me and just start making out smearing it between our chests.
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Us too. We love to watch each other masturbate. In truth we are starting to prefer that to PIV or any othwr form of penetrative sex.
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We love doing mutual masturbation.
Hubby’s the only one that I’ve done it with, and the same with him too.
I felt a bit embarrassed at first, but when I see how much he gets turned on and how much he enjoys watching me, I let all that go and enjoyed doing it.
I love to use my womanizer on myself, and I’ll masturbate him at the same time.
Or we’ll masturbate each other or ourselves and watch each other, and passionate kissing.
If I go solo, I like to video, take photos and send them to him so he’s got them to use.
He’ll send me videos/photos too of himself for me to use.
Another one I like to do is me filming or taking photos of me doing that act on him and oral, so I can use them too.
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You guys know howxto have fun.!!
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It’s only been a year that we started to explore more of our sex life, and loving every minute and every bit of it 
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Ill tell you what, from what ive read of your posts its been a hell of a busy horny year… i think you are in training for the sex Olympics.
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We work on each other and he actually told me I was the only woman to do this to him. Nearly 20 year together and we started this only last year after a massive refresh of our relationship.
Such a turn on!
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I know, I find it a fascinating and exciting subject and enjoy talking about it. My idea about masturbation is that it is doing yourself without a partner. That is kinda how it all started with me, learning the pleasure it would bring. Then relationships developed and it all became a bit complicated. However, now a bit older, my mind is open to anything, bi, straight, whatever and masturbation is always a choice, one on yourself.
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Yes i full agree withvyour friendly reminder.!!
We love MM. I always try to get her to cum at least once before penetration and hold off myself as long as possible during penetration. Quite often, we are both wrecked before I cum so it’s nice to lie back and bring ourselves off…after all, we know our own bodies best 
Also, as foreplay, it is so exciting to watch each other play.
We also masturbate each other.
It’s kind of a great feeling that arises.
If you haven’t already, you should definitely give it a try… 
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I hadn’t been with my new partner long when we were laying in bed on Sunday morning. She took hold of my hand and then began to masturbate herself with the free one. Whilst I was getting to know how she self pleasures herself I couldn’t help but take myself with my free hand. When my partner had brought herself to orgasm I had the pleasure of finishing off inside her, needless to say she was very wet by then.
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We have had mutual masturbation for more years than we dare say, but, still find it so erotic whether solo, watching each other or helping each other at the same time. We have recently added to this with our toys which has taken it to another level. We also add to our enjoyment by going over past experiences and sometimes go to fantasies which seem to be getting more and more erotic!
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I’ve given it a try a few times in the past but found I end up turning myself off during. Think it definitely must be a mental mind thing or my meds or maybe I’ve become desensitised with porn
Apart from being a wonderful experience watching each other masturbate it’s also very educational. By watching how she pleasures herself I’ve become much better at doing it for her when the mood takes her.
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I enjoy MM too but I like the feeling of being filled up by my partner as well, sometimes I think we’re not on the same page because I know he masturbates without me when I go out (because it’s easier/quicker/different?) and I end up being horny all the time and it drives me mad when he says I can do it by myself too, I’d just rather do it together.
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Given the choice of solo or mutual/together, the later wins every time for me…get him told.!! 
MM in my opinion should be part of anyones sexual program. Not all the time, but part of sex when that aspect just feels right . Just adds to the variety and can be very satisfying and intimate at the right time depending on how you both feel .
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