A while a go I bought an Estim kit, like any typical male, strapped everything to my cock, went at it like a bull, put everything on full power and whilst it was intense it seemed to do nothing for me. Dissapointed I packed it all away and left it there! Last night I was doing usual cock searching on the net, apart from dildo's it's the only cock I get! Whilst searching I found a page on a website of one man and lots of video of him using estim with various cock toys, sounds etc. This made me curious again, I made my self a compilation of his videos, got the kit out and strapped it on my cock, inserted my longest 14mm hollow penis plug, an idea I got from his videos, set the estim to a level I was comfortable with rather than going for the full shock treatment! Put his video on and laid back and let the Estim do its work, I didn't change any settings this time, I'm an impatient man but this time I knew things were happening so I just left the Estim to it and within 5 minutes I was having the most amazing orgasm!! I'm so pleased I gave it another go! Now all Ive got to do is pursued her indoors to give it a try!!😁
I like estim but nothing shuts me down quicker than slapping it straight up to the top level.
You've also ticked my box with the going back to something that initially disappointed me. I've learned the expensive way to no longer bin somethig that doesn't work for me straight away. I go back a few weeks later and try again. It usually turns out better when I've lost the new toy/great reviews expectations.
Glad you had a fab orgasm out of it and hope you have many more.
What’s Estim? Do you have any links to the videos?
Firstly due to LH rules I dont believe I can share links to the videos. Its Electro stimulation, basically a sort of tens machine but with attachments for sexual purposes. Ultimately hands free masterbation. https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=26514E13Lee wrote:
What’s Estim? Do you have any links to the videos?
I've never tried sounding or estim. You've made it sound good fun, but the thought of having my cock probed and electrocuted is really off-putting.
Are both these things more pleasurable than they sound on paper?
To be honest I'm only going say good things about both, I've been sounding for years, bought a set of hegar sounds and a 10mm penis plug, started with the 8mm sound of the sound set and it was amazing when I got the penis plug in! The feel is hard describe but awesome and the reason why I do is again hard to say!! You tell someone you push rods, the bigger the better, down your cock for fun and they're horrified! My best mate is female and my confidant who I tell more than I should and she nearly passed out when I told her! She still doesn't get it! Oh and I'm up to a 15mm sound now! Just the 16mm in the kit left! As for Estim I've only done it twice, as I said the first time I did it completely wrong, went at it like a bull at a gate, everything on full! It was too much and didn't enjoy it at all to the point I thought I'd never do it again! It was only whilst watching gay porn that I found a bloke combining both sounding and Estim that I thought I'd give it a go again, this time I took my time and found a level I was comfortable with! If you get it right it's just a tingle that tenses your muscles thus stimulating you without the need for touching yourself! Again it's a great feeling especially when you ejaculate hands free. If your in to the extreme side of sexual play I would highly recommend it but I would also recommend a lot of research and looking in to what your planning on doing especially sounding, Estim is very safe. Hope that helps. Xdefam wrote:
I've never tried sounding or estim. You've made it sound good fun, but the thought of having my cock probed and electrocuted is really off-putting.
Are both these things more pleasurable than they sound on paper?
Not 100% related to this thread but still on the subjust of estim. LH sell this https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32452 as an alternative to a kit. My partner bought me it as we were both intrigued by estim but a bit put off by the wires/kits! I’ve still not tried it as still a bit scared of the whole being electrocuted idea (I know in reality they are safe but my head still can’t quite let me). My OH has tried it anally and was really positive about it, although didn’t make him come, but we’ve plenty of time to practice. One thing I will say is make sure it’s turned off before use and only turned on when inserted. I’ve never seen him jump so far across the bed 🤣🤣
Bubblehead69 wrote:
Not 100% related to this thread but still on the subjust of estim. LH sell this https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=32452 as an alternative to a kit. My partner bought me it as we were both intrigued by estim but a bit put off by the wires/kits! I’ve still not tried it as still a bit scared of the whole being electrocuted idea (I know in reality they are safe but my head still can’t quite let me). My OH has tried it anally and was really positive about it, although didn’t make him come, but we’ve plenty of time to practice. One thing I will say is make sure it’s turned off before use and only turned on when inserted. I’ve never seen him jump so far across the bed 🤣🤣
I've got this one, I bought it and other e-stim toys when I new to toys and wanted to try everything. I did enjoy e-stim but haven't done it for quite a while, I should get them out again but sort of lost a bit of confidence with it. Kudos to your other half for taking this up the bum though, it's certainly not a slim toy even for those putting it in their vagina!
Yes man that's great, definitely reminds me not to abandon my e-stim toys, it's not like I didn't enjoy them and my technique generally is so much better now, I bet it would be awesome 🤔
AmyA I totally get what you mean about wanting every toy out there. We have a very large overflowing toy drawer and more still in boxes, dam DOTHDs! I also know what you mean about lacking confidence. I’m just apprehensive about trying it but maybe with all this chat I might talk myself into it soon. Would be interested to hear how you get on if you decide to give it another go. As for its girth, yes it is definitely not a toy to begin with but it’s also not the biggest in our collection 😳 taking it slow and warming up before hand with something smaller. When you have toys that work for you and give you pleasure why go looking for another toy. But this just intrigued me and make me think with practice and time it could give equally amazing pleasure but in a totally different way. A bit like what Yes man was saying and describing estim feeling like.
Having in the past only used estim as a way of doing pelvic floor exercises (for which I found it very effective) I recently decided to investigate electrode configurations that might actually induce an erection. I reasoned that, perhaps, the best exercise for improving your erection is to have more of them - that's my excuse and I'm sticking with it.
In line with what @yes-man found I discovered that an electrode concentrated on the frenulum (with the other electrode being a conductive rubber loop around the glans) was extremely effective. Using a continuous stream of high frequency short pulses that were only just strong enough to be felt as a slight tingle (120Hz and 50 to 100us wide and ~25% amplitude from a standard TENs box) a strong erection was induced that simply refused to go away until the stimulation was removed (on occasion after periods of over an hour). Distraction techniques like reading the cheerful World news or doing mental arithmetic just don't seem to droop it one bit.
As for orgasms, I have not really tried for one being more than happy with the simple pleasure gained from the feeling of being really hard for a really long time but I'm sure that a suitably modulated pulse pattern would quite easily take one over the edge.
Well, it turns out I was wrong about needing a fancy pulse pattern to trigger an orgasm. I was using a steady 60Hz, 350us pulse stream at a totally comfortable amplitude that was keeping me rock hard for about an hour when I realised I was being driven over the edge for a very long, powerful orgasm. Subsequent sessions have reached this point rather faster so there is certainly a learning/acclimatisation factor to this.
Would certainly suggest that anyone who has not tried estim or has not tried it with an electrode on the frenulum gives it a try.