My wife is very inactive , and has a fair amount of toys and orders more somewhat often . My selection is getting fairly large . Just my lingerie is quite expansive . I suggested we build an addition for a dungeon and walk in closet along with built ins for toys . We generally get rid of toys when beyond their time . I have several toys that cost a lot ( at least for me ) , that suck and not in a good way . Hate to throw them out .
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I managed the cull. Only two large silicone dildos (glass just hits different), my slimline butt plug that has somehow lost its colour (I’ll probably find a metal replacement at some point) and a cock ring. Biggest surprise of all is probably the We Jive 2. It just doesn’t do anything for me.
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Such a killjoy! 
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Telling me. I asked him “how about your collection of things to beat and torture me with?” and he said “that lot stays” 
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And now the fun begins…. Shopping 
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I just know that I’d have a clear out to make room and promptly replace with twice as much 
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I could do with parting ways with a few. Problem is, I’m a hoarder 
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Don’t tempt me, we brats need no encouragement
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I’m a minimalist, but Marie Kondo did say to keep anything that brings you joy, so…
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this is true
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If they dont get used, no point keeping them.
Especially if we have several iteration of the same toy, but only one of them gets used all the time.
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That’s my point. You can get rid of your stuff, but I’m not getting rid of mine. As I said before, fuck off.
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A lot of them do get used, because variety is the spice of life!
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And you never know when you might change your mind or think of another way of using it.
Yeah and our loft is full of cardboard boxes and I’ll not have anyone say anything about them. I’ll use them eventually.
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My opinion, keep them!
Variety is good, can’t really have too many. Different colors, shapes, sizes etc. You can always swap toys out.
Maybe convince him you’ll be good and store most away and just swap them in and out when you want a change.
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We don’t have a loft (we live in a ground floor flat) but I have several Amazon boxes flattened on a shelf, and a big bag of bubblewrap. I’m not wasting my money on packaging when I need it!
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I’ll be good… yeah that’s the problem, “good” really isn’t in my nature
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@Tenshadesandme Can you ever have too many ?
The only exception would be duplicates.
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I’d argue no. If he can distinguish betwween floggers and pinwheels, I can distinguish between vibrators and clit suckers. That’s the rule!
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We don’t tend to throw away unless they break, but we have the ‘A team’ of toys which get a lot of use and live in a drawer next to the bed, things like the favorite couple of blindfolds, gags, cuffs, vibrators and plugs.
Then we have the ‘B team’ which are in a box in the wardrobe. They include things like seasonal costumes (Halloween / Christmas etc), older toys that have been superseded by newer, better quality or more ‘advanced’ stuff , and the more involved toys that simply get less use because of the setting up such as the harnesses, spreader bars, head harness gag / blindfold combos etc which we might break out occasionally for a good session when there are no kids around and we fancy going wild.
Maybe do something like that, just put some of the less used toys neatly away (but still reasonably accessible), so it doesn’t feel like your whole bedroom is just full of toys.
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We do have our Magnolia Room of Sensation but the electronics drawer was looking a bit full
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