My wife has had this fantasy for a long while - she wants to have sex with a guy with a large penis. Mine is 6.5” so not exactly small but I think it’s because it would feel different? Do all ladies think like this? Do you think I should let her fulfil her fantasy or would that just get her hooked on it, rather than put it to bed so to speak…
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Hmmmmm well I was massively into cuckolding smd my wife was against it, but fast forward a few years and she no longer wanted me sexually and was been satisfied elsewhere.
She fell in love with him and had an affair for 18 months until we broke up. Up to you but maybe suggest a 9 inch strap on instead
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How about a penis extender …
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Hhmm, yes I personally love the idea of a bigger, thicker cock. But if my H allowed me a night with a guy fitting the bill would I become addicted to bigger cocks and his no longer satisfy me? I think that’s what you’re asking. 
No, I can’t imagine it would.
My relations with H are about our connection as partners, and therefore are deeper (excuse the pun 
) than just his cock in my pussy.
If your relationship is solid and you can honestly say you won’t feel any jealousy or bitterness about her fulfilling her fantasy, then why not talk with her about possibly making it happen. x
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Only you can judge what it means to your relationship.
As others have mentioned you can fulfill her fantasies by the use of penis extenders or larger dildos.
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I do believe it could still be an intimate moment between the two of you if she was been satisfied by another guy.
If you are ok with it too then why not, just explore the idea and maybe suggest it to see how she reacts.
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Only you can answer that but you could compromise and buy her a dildo which is larger than your penis.
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Well myself and my husband swing so I get to try out larger cocks on a regular basis 
hubs gets extremely turned on seeing me satisfied!
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I bet, lucky guy and lucky girl too 
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Not my wife’s fantasy but mine. I would stick with a nice sleeve. I got 2 realistic silicone black and white. Just bought realistic BBC dildo with balls. We have all shapes and sizes. We talk dirty and she cums a lot. Have fun
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Have you asked her if it’s something she’d want to follow through with or be happy trying it out on just a dildo that you can join in on with her ?
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Does she actually want to have sex with another man, or does she want a larger dildo as an alternative? Is it a fantasy that she wants to fulfill or is it a fantasy thats fun to think about?
I think you need to have more of a conversation about this and get the specifics of what she’s wanting. Can you be involved, do you want to be involved, what is your initial gut feeling when you think about your wife with another man? Does it turn you on, make you feel sad, jealous, excited? Some things to think about, you don’t need to answer here.
Not all women want a larger penis and not all women want another penis. Some women want a larger penis and another penis. Either way as long as theres communication and consent, its all gravy.
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Firstly, I just want to say that not all ladies think like this. Everyone has their own preferences and kinks!
Secondly, as others have mentioned it might be a good idea to try dildos, sleeves or penis extenders before jumping straight into cuckholding (especially if it’s something you’re not 100% comfortable with!) It sounds like you two are already very open about discussing fantasies, so it might be worth asking her what turns her on about her fantasy. Is it the larger penis aspect or does she want to have sex with a completed different guy. And then go from there (;
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I’ve never wanted to go bigger, but I do have a thing for “different”. It’s not a reflection on my husband or my love for him at all, actually, he loves sharing me, and I think mentally I’ve begun getting accustomed to the idea of being shared! As others have said, exploring sleeves and extenders can be a great idea, just.make sure you’re comfortable too. If you’re not comfortable with sharing her, don’t be afraid to speak up. Your feelings matter too. Good luck!
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My x had a friend that did the same and it ended her marriage 
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We just did this, will report back. 
I’m average size and length as well, but wife likes watching porn with guys that have larger cocks, so we’ll see. She also gets turned on by seeing guys ejaculate, and seeing cream pies. I like seeing that as well. 
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My husband’s penis is 8 inches so by no means small, but I was into cuckholding massively and wanted to fuck other men.
I love my husband so much and would do anything, he is the love of my life and no one could replace him romantically. However, I wanted more freedom to play sexually. Personally, I’d let her
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I would absolutely love my Wife to tell me this 
Dip your toes in it. For me, it was really hot! Getting things going wasn’t the problem, but all the planning was a bit of a mess. Trying to figure out who was into who, and where to do it, that kind of thing. Like, the guys she liked weren’t always who I thought she’d go for. But after a while, I just went with the flow, figuring if it turned her on, I was cool with it. And it’s been pretty wild ever since.