We’re talking about having a naughty weekend away… as we have children and it’s hard work keeping things quiet and being able to fully relax during the day time when we want one another!
Want to buy some bits to explore… let’s see what you guys can recommend! Up for anything so chuck it this way
My wife and I try and have these same weekends every so often. It’s a great time for us to unwind and really enjoy one another.
Really depends what you’re interested in trying. We use these weekends to dress sexy home and away, lingerie sets. Role play and trying new sex toys. Or it could just be having some really loud sex and not having to worry about it!
Never in 22 years have we even thought of having a “naughty” weekend …. I’m am very excited to have him to my self with no children… interruptions… every day crap around the house…:
I want it to be something we maybe plan every month! Just to add something to us…
All the toys can come, love a bit of lube… looking for some satin/lace to tie my wrists? And recommendations…
I’m the same we have 2 older daughters and we try to have the odd day away and we take as much as we can
As for wrist ties - I would either look around for satin ties - but personally use stockings- cheap and easily tied to wrist resistants and feel good too
As stated earlier all depends what " Floats your boat " as they say , sit and chat as to what , if anything you both fancy exploring , something remote always seems to do the job as the element of surprise is always great for raising a smile
Discuss just how naughty you both want to be. This will add to your excitement. You’re away from home in a different place where no one knows you. Let your hair down. Buy lingerie and clothes which are more daring than the clothes you would normally wear. Feel more sexy and desired. Try new things. Be liberated for the weekend. Enjoy.
I think it’s fun to have some brand new toys and lingerie to test on a weekend away - no idea what you already have, but some other things that have made naughty nights in a hotel fun for us are:
Lingerie fashion show: I love it when my wife tries on different outfits and dances around!
Sexy games: we have played the Esther Perel Where Should We Begin game together - it’s pretty fun
Electric tea lights: I place them around the room for lighting and mood
Speaker: we always take a Bluetooth speaker and we have sexy time playlists!
Blindfold: is just a really fun way to enhance a massage or sexy sensations play
We found some nice sex board games or exploring something new like wet look outfits or going to a bdsm dungeon as a date night out has been fun as a break away from kids
We are lucky to have a pretty big house so ‘normal’ sex isn’t really an issue day to day so long as the kids are asleep. Thanks to the creaky wooden floors, the long passageway, echoey upstairs landing and huge heavy oak doors that the kids can’t open and close without making a lot of noise, we always have plenty of notice that they’re up and about so we have a good few seconds to roll off one another and get into a less compromising position before our door handle starts to go.
When we have time alone without kids though, we like to be a bit adventurous and do stuff that takes a bit more ‘setting up’ that we just couldn’t do for fear of interruptions. We’ve got a decent collection of restraints that would obviously take too long to get out of and hide away if the threat of interruptions were there. My wife likes to dress up in various outfits / lingerie and we both like to be dominated from time to time. I really enjoy being restrained, blindfolded, gagged etc for extended periods of time while she teases and abuses me. Obviously this isn’t practical with the threat of interruptions either.
We are off in a few weeks for a couple of nights in a hotel while our kids both go away on a school residential trip. We booked the hotel the other day, I have bought lingerie for my wife tonight and she tells me she’s bought me some new cuffs and new gag. We’ll keep the surprises for when we get there.
Have a talk and see what she fancies, maybe once you’ve got an idea buy each other some toys / outfits as a surprise for the weekend. A real good idea for us was watching a bit of porn together, not the really ridiculous stuff but the quite realistic stuff that was in line with our kinks (for us it was the slightly more sensual bondage type scenes that we had the most common ground over) and we used them for ideas as a talking point to go ‘oh actually that’s quite hot, I would like you to do something similar to me’.