I always have been interested in butt plugs, maybe a bit too much, but i decided to walk in a sexshop and buy one and honestly, it was the best decision i made in the pas 2 years. After playing with household objects, like a cigar holder tube and a homemade thing, it was really good to feel to enjoy it more with lube and proper toys. The problem is that i bought a plug i feel i failed with. It's a Pixie Probe. 1 hour of playing, lot's of lube and i was able to work it in gently. It was comfortable, honestly, but it almost "fell inside". I could calm myself and give it a push so it got out safely. I was calm enough to reinsert it. After that, it didn' show any sign of falling inside however it didn't stay in no matter what i did. When the water based lube worn off, i could hold it in for a few minutes. So my question is the following. Can i make it safe somehow? I was thinking of tying a thin rope to it and if it slides in, i can get it back. I'm unable to buy another one for weeks, and i don't want this one to be wasted since it felt really good, till it tried to slide in. Also i am looking for a vinrating plug, at least 2" wide. So if anyone has any suggestions for both cases, i would appreciate that.
Personally no, I'd chalk it up to experience and ditch it. Had to google it but it looks like a jelly toy which aren't really body safe anyway. Try a silicone or glass plug for size!
I'd recommend taking a look at Lovehoney's 2 for £15 buttplug section, and maybe picking up the LH 'classic' small and medium plugs. I have plenty of buttplugs and the Medium classic is one of the best I've ever tried :)
I haven't looked into this one but if it has a flat Base like most should it's going to hurt like hell to get it back out if it slips in past your sphincter. I would recommend looking round LH and looking for something with a very well defined neck. This allows your sphincter to close while the bulb is inside so it can't slip inside or out
Please dont use any plug which has disappeared up your bum...its dangerous !
I'd go for something with a thin neck and a good flared base. I've been using plugs etc for years and have never 'lost ' one....if I had it would be straight in the bin. Something along the lines of the few I've listed below are a good, safe shape...
Please dont use any plug which has disappeared up your bum...its dangerous !
I'd go for something with a thin neck and a good flared base. I've been using plugs etc for years and have never 'lost ' one....if I had it would be straight in the bin. Something along the lines of the few I've listed below are a good, safe shape...
Thanks for all the suggestions. I was already looking for a new one. Sadly i live in a distant country, so it's hard to get anything from lovehoney. http://thexshop.xxx/en/lovetoys/anal-toys/with-vibration/5-speeds-plug-large-black.html I was thinking about this one. They messed up the description, because its width is 4.5cm at the thickest point and in my opinion this is good enough not ti slip in and also it has vibration whick i really want to have for self bondage. Anyway the one i have now is made from silicone as well, i mean the pixie.
Heyy my husband really wants to have some bum fun with me but he is rather big down there I'm scared he will hurt me as when I had my daughter I had stitches from front to back what sort of but plug will I have to start with as there is no way he is just going strait for it as it to big what wood yous use or do??
Heyy my husband really wants to have some bum fun with me but he is rather big down there I'm scared he will hurt me as when I had my daughter I had stitches from front to back what sort of but plug will I have to start with as there is no way he is just going strait for it as it to big what wood yous use or do??
Play on your own for a bit first just using your fingers and plenty of lube. Once you're comfortable with that you can progress onto a smallish plug/prober, something like these...
You can then gradually increase the size, remembering to always use plenty of lube. You need to teach your body to relax while using anal toys amnd then you'll find anal sex pleasurable. If you're tense you wont enjoy it and may find it uncomfortable. If your oh is quite big I'd move up to a reasonably sized toy before you let him penetrate you anally. He can join in the fun by using the toys witrh you until you feel comfortable with him being in there x
Please dont use any plug which has disappeared up your bum...its dangerous !
I'd go for something with a thin neck and a good flared base. I've been using plugs etc for years and have never 'lost ' one....if I had it would be straight in the bin. Something along the lines of the few I've listed below are a good, safe shape...
Please dont use any plug which has disappeared up your bum...its dangerous !
I'd go for something with a thin neck and a good flared base. I've been using plugs etc for years and have never 'lost ' one....if I had it would be straight in the bin. Something along the lines of the few I've listed below are a good, safe shape...
I bought the Black Velvet large vibrating plug. What can i say? This is much better than the one i bought last time. This one stays in, thr vibrating engine is pretty strong yet quiet, even in the absolutely quiet room it is hard to notice anything. I applyed a large amount of lube, but it stays in no matter what i do. Pretty good imo, and definately not for newbies. It was worth buying it.