I’m a married guy approaching 50. Our sex life has always been up and down (no pun intended!) we went through patches of constantly going at it but it seems to have faded.
Well the other day I thought I really don’t want us to end up as a couple who have sex only once a month or longer! So I ordered a few things off LH and when it arrives we’ll have some fun. We’re not totally new to toys, I’ve used cock rings and my oh has a couple of vibrators and clit bullet things.
I ordered the wild weekend pack as it was on offer, some more cock rings, some kinky underwear for her and thought I’d try a pump to get extra blood flow down there!
We’ve tried anal a couple of time and I’d really like to do it more often so hopefully we’ll get there. She has played with my ass a few times, first time I didn’t even expect it but was really into it. It’s never got to her putting plugs or anything up there but she has had a couple of fingers up there, sometimes it felt good but sometimes uncomfortable, lack of lube probably. So in the pack is a small butt plug, hopefully end up exploring that a bit.
I’m going to make sure I am more open about my needs regarding sex with her, when we were good we were really good (not that we’re not good now) but I want that deep connection with her again in our sex life.
We are in a really good place in all other aspects of our life, this will complete it. I know it can be great again, so here’s to that
Welcome. My OH and I have had our dry spells also… life just seems to get in the way. With us the children are older now and the focus is on elderly parents along with work etc… You’ll see this mentioned in a few posts but communication is key. We don’t know what each other is thinking so frank and honest communication will help massively. Hope this helps.
I have to be honest, I wasn’t even aware Lovehoney did packs. I know they add and remove products all the time but I’ve got so many toys to choose from already that I don’t think I don’t have anything that doesn’t do what something I already have does - whew that’s a brain bender!
All I can say is keep communicating and discussing what you like and dislike. People change, wants and needs change. Just keep talking, loving and supporting one another. That’s all you can do
is that better?
