Hey @SexyLadyJ welcome back to the forum.
Brilliant advice above., A few things I’ve thought about for you to ponder.
Do you masterbate? Do you know where you like to be touched? I’ve masterbated since I was 12 so by the time I had sex for the first time (many years later) I knew what I liked. Even though it turned out to be penis in, few pumps, done… It was such a disappointment… And he was experienced!
See this experienced “thing” makes me think. You’re experienced how? Slept with a lot of women? Licked a lot of p****? Maybe he was giving it big ones too? Maybe if he says he’s experienced you might find that more attractive? Like others have said every partner is a new experience! Just for example look at this
People have different places on their body that they prefer to be touched etc so really communication is key. While your chatting ask his most sensitive area etc
And again like others have said you don’t need to be a porn star! Just enjoy it. Yes you will most likely be nervous but go with the flow hunny