Hi all. I'm new to this so apologies if I'm not posting In the right place or it's a standard thread already?!!!
Anyway I have a new partner of a few months and we've started being a little adventurous. I have a few vibrators and bullets and were keen to try tying up etc.
does anyone have any tame ish ideas for me? He likes being tied up but I don't really know then what to do? I just want some lightly filthy ideas without being mega crazy. He wants a vibrating buttplug too.
thanks in advance. X
Well it seems you can talk to each other about sex quite openly. If he likes being tied up maybe bring a spanking paddle into play, not so hard as to hurt, but being at someones mercy is for me a huge turn on.
Keep talking, maybe look through LH together and see what you both think looks interesting
My husband and I like to use a blindfold when we're tying each other up, as it's great for sensory play.
This could help you in two ways - increasing the excitement for him and helping you feel less pressure if you're unsure about what to do next.