Continuing the discussion from About the Sex Tips & Talk category:
I recently bought a longer 12" insertable dildo, with 8" in circumference. For some male anal play. No matter how much I gently push, I can’t get the whole length inside. Do I need to get a dildo with less girth first to open me up a little at a time. Ive always used dildo’s on the large side, but only 9" long.
Seeing as it’s not normally a length issue but girth, while training yourself for your new toy might I suggest using an inflatable 9 inch dildo to help stretch you out allowing you to get that 8 inch circumference comfortably where you want it to reach.
Hi JGood. Thank you for the reply. I was thinking of getting the 7.5" X 12" dildo, so as to practice to get it all the way in around the bend, so to speak. Ive had that popping sensation in the past. But think the 8" circumference dildo is just too much at the moment. Im sure with practice, it’ll go eventually. Aslo slightly nervous as well.
I’m a very experienced anal player and, regardless of girth, I find it impossible to take any more than 10" length. It’s as if there’s a narrowing or a bend up there which prevents any more going in.
Welcome to the forum sir!
It is ideal to gradually work up to bigger sizes if not used to it. So maybe you just need to use one of your smaller dildos first then the nee 12” one after to see if it helps
Exactly right. Me too. Ive just ordered from LH the 12" with 7.5" circumference. Im hoping it will slide in easier, and maybe with practise, take the full 12". Hoping my wife will help me out. She wont wear a harness, but doesn’t mind doing it by hand.
Thank you AJSTAR, for your reply. I’ll certainly give it a go.