I've recently started a relationshp with a great guy, but having never been with a circumcised man before I was a bit taken aback (and a bit disheartened to be honest) to find just how unsensitive he is - nothing I try with my hands or mouth seems to make any difference and he doesn't really get much feeling from intercourse either. He can just about make himself orgasm but only after several hours of very patient masturbation using a movement which I have tried my hardest to copy but can't seem to 'pull it off' as it were. His last couple of relationships have gone wrong and ended mainly because of the problems he has enjoying sex and the other girls losing patience with him. Despite this, he is a very gentle and good lover and very attentive to my pleasure, but it makes me so sad I can't return the favour and I know its had a huge affect on his confidence too.
I was wondering if anyone can suggest some toys, creams, lotions - anything really that might help improve the sensitivity of his penis so he gets more sensation from being stimulated? I've also seen an american product online called the SenSlip which is effectively an artificial foreskin that is worn over the penis during the day so help protect it from friction and rubbing and so it gradually restores the feeling in the glans - does anyone know if there is a British equivalent available? Or perhaps would simply wearing a condom during the day help? I really like this guy and would like to be able to help him if I can.