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Hi am new to the site and have read a few threads and thought i would submit my own so here goes.

how do you seduce your partner,arouse him/her.

do you play sexual games,massage,watch porn together?

can you tell me from start to finish how you seduce your partner?

Hello and welcome to the forum

How I seduce him is different everytime as I don't want him to get used to something and not enjoy it as much anymore. It always starts with a good kissing session, getting more passionate as time passes. Sometimes I just lightly touch his arms or thighs which he loves. Sometimes I give him a massage or drag him into the shower with me, sometimes I appear from the bathroom in a new piece of lingerie, sometimes I'm upfront and tell him what I want. It depends really, there's always some sort of foreplay though. He's a big guy so we can't just go straight into it.

i tend to dress up in my doctors uniform and start with a massage slowly blowing and kissing all over her body as i do so,lightly stroking the inner thighs,then turn her over and blindfold her and tie her arms and legs to the bed,that way i can do whatever i like

love her to suck my cock while im rubbing her clit,especially when she deep throats me

First of all welcome to the forums.

How to seduce a woman

First of all every woman is different and glad that you used the word "Seduce" as well as using that word you will already appreciate that unlike some guys seem to think a woman is not like a machine whereby if you press a button all their clothes disappear and they are ready to make love.

As it happens I took my wife into work this morning and I will tell you how I plan to seduce her when I get her back here around 3.00pm this afternoon.

I will start with preparation . I will tidy the bedroom up and clean the coffee machine and placed some Caram el Lattes pods nearby for making her favourite drink when she arrives home.I have a couple of low fat Chinese Meals in and will serve these in the bedroom later on and share a noodle or 2 with her.I will also make sure the dimmed lighting works ok.So that's the nest sorted out .

As I took her to work I know exactly what she was wearing a pair of unflattering jeans and a button up blouse (my favourite type).

By trade she is a cake confectioner and I luv that sweet cake smell that she will have and I already have told her not to rush into the shower when she gets home.She may just change her pants though as she as particular about them being spotless probably no different than anyone else but perhaps something to bear in mind if you want to swoop on your partner as they come through the door with their work attire .When she changes her pants and I know she will she may not bother putting her jeans back on which will be a bonus.

Sof I pick her up at work made her a latte and she us sitting on the bed with clean pants and minus her jeans.

This is what I plan on happening next with the TV on and the bedroom door secured (to stop our teenage son from barging in) I will start by asking her how her day was etc to get her talking and helping her to relax .I will then leave her awhile to sort our sons evening meal out etc. This is normally done by the Mrs .I will then return and make her another coffee and give her a lingering kiss may even make it a French one and then get our Chinese Meals ready.

Whilst eating them on the bed we will feed each other and continue talking away about general things just to make more conversation. When we have finished our evening meal I will clear the used plates away etc.

Now we are down to the perhaps more interesting bit .We do spend a lot of time kissing and cuddling each other in the evenings and this is no exception. Now when you have been with a partner for a while you will have a map of her body implanted on your brain. Every person is different here .My lady is no different and her erogenous zones are her neck ,back ,rib cage ,tummy ,feet,inner thighs ,bum and the usual lady parts. The lady parts I would well leave alone for later.

Since she will have no jeans on then the chances are she will also be in bare feet.I will start with a foot massage whilst still talking , kissing and cuddling etc. She luvs this especially as she has been standing most of the day at work. After a while I will start paying more attention to her neck. This I think is her number one spot as she goes all squishy and Google eyed .As I concentrate on her neck ,with a free hand I will start slowly unbutton her blouse to expose her back and start kissing and caressing her there .Once unbuttoned I will slip her blouse off and undo her bra and kiss her on the areas were the strap has been .At this point I will still not touch her boobs.At this point if she hasn't reciprocated I will remove my own top .I will then concentrate on her inner thighs kissing and caressing as I go along.After thus I will stroke her boobs and nibble them and then remove her pants. I will then remove the remainder of my clothes .

At this point both of you will now be ready to make passionate love.

I appreciate it's a long process but that is what seduction is and involves some planning and preparation.These are all designed to make your partner relax and help prepare their bodies for the final act.

I hope this helps with your question.

I also wanted to add I will send her some sexy texts . Something like I have a nice pair of sexy Brazilian pants for you tobslip into. CAn't wait to see you in them.

Can't wait to get you home hun.

As on other idea if kids arn't around why not be a Butler in the buff for an evening .My wife luvs this but rarely happens because of our teenage son.

Just another idea.

Hi :) Welcome to the forums. Have Fun x

I normally suprise my OH by wearing some gorgeous Lovehoney lingerie or costume, that normally does the trick.

Fantastic advice Mysteron, you have one lucky wife ;)

Hello and welcome :)

It varies depending on the day, something as little as the way we kiss works, or a bite on my neck!

Hey, welcome to the forums x

Hi there and welcome :D

how do you seduce your partner,arouse him/her.

do you play sexual games,massage,watch porn together?

can you tell me from start to finish how you seduce your partner?

tbh my partner is pretty easily seduced :) if I have to the seducing it is very much me doing a lot of sighing, slowly taking my clothes off, putting his hands on my body. If that fails, a lot of grinding and good old fashioned blowjob hehe

Hi All

New to the love honey community forum, obviously ordered bits from the site which was what drew me to the community forum, I guess a little bit about me would help ok I'm married have been for 15yrs this October have 3 daughters aged from 13-25 only the 13 & 17 yr old are living at home the 17yr old works and obviously the 13yr old is at school I work on a shift pattern basis so don't really get to see my wife or the kids much on a late week, but that leads to an all the more exciting weekend with the missus i love to try different things my wife not so much, I love anal but my wife isn't so keen she does do it but I really have to catch her in a good mood I also love oral sex and if you can understand it I love it more when I go down on my wife she loves it to which is always good. My big fantasy is lesbian sex have never took part in a threesome and not sure I would nor my wife but we do enjoy watching porn together. I love buying new sec toys to try out and have purchased my first male masturbator, never really gave a thought before to be honest but purchased my wife's annual Christmas sex you and thought why not. Hope I haven't bored everyone look forward to getting involved in the forum.

I don't have a partner currently and everyone likes different things so I can't really answer your questions but I would like to say welcome to the forum.