No kids week fun rules advice

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Okay bit of background first.
Married, kids, jobs, and a few health issues have seen our sex life take a big nose dive recently. The fact that we’re both not the best communicators doesn’t help either.
Kids are away for a week soon so I’m planning a few date nights but I was going to suggest a few “rules” to the Mrs for that week such as no clothes in bed (she always wears pjs) and at least 5 mins spooning at night or morning.
I’m trying to think of things that won’t make her feel pressured to do anything but hopefully get us in the mood.

Is there anything any of you have done similar that helped, or any ideas/advice you have will be appreciated.

Thanks

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How does your wife feel about rules? Consent is everything here. Unfortunately you can’t foece intimacy, you’ll only wind up making her want it less.

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I guessed that saying I wanted them to be fun and not put any pressure on her would explain that I’m not trying to force anything on her, but let’s call them suggestions if that suits better.
She certainly won’t be shy to tell me she’s not interested in doing any of them.

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Them ideas you have at the moment already sound great and maybe you could even push for having a shower together perhaps?!

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Maybe buy her a sexy babydoll outfit for bed if you think she might not agree to the naked in bed idea which she may be more comfortable with. Oh and how about you give her a nice full body massage, that always relaxes me and we get alexa to play relaxing massage music.

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