Non-spanking 'punishments'

Hi, does anyone here do face slapping or other non-spanking things?

Yes. Corner time, 'grounding' (from certain websites), figging, or use of Deep Heat cream.

Orgasm denial is a big one in our house.

Face slapping, I love it 😍 orgasm denial too, or being made to wait and wait and being edged and then having to beg for orgasm. Not allowed to play with my toys, or play at all.

When I had a Daddy, he made be do lines, and was often locked in a cage or sent to bed early

Yes, I usually get slapped in the face if I 'misbehave' during.

If it's not during I may get tied to a spot, he takes me to the edge then leaves me tied to the spot for an hour or so.

I'm also made to wear a plug whilst doing household chores (he thinks that's a punishment for - but to me, it's not)

Reany - I've always liked the idea of being caged!

I used to love being caged, it was never punishment really, even being left there for hours.

Hey zun, look up uthak baithak and murgah. ![](upload://rA41UoqYzU9yrgGiJUyzuRc98GV.gif)

(my Indian school experience)

Personally, I enjoy using a riding crop to punish my subs – training them to respond to both the sound and certain teasing sensations whilst blind folded. That way you can provide warnings which make them more responsive when you want something done.

Lots of interesting ideas and definitely new things for me to discover.

carlathebest: You're quite devil-ish ![](upload://rA41UoqYzU9yrgGiJUyzuRc98GV.gif)

Follow on questions: what is caged? I hope you don't mean putting him inside a real animal cage do you?

Covered in bees wrote:

Yes. Corner time, 'grounding' (from certain websites), figging, or use of Deep Heat cream.

Sounds interesting , but what is "grounding" and "figging" ?
The deep heat cream is painful , and yes ,I have tried it :-(

Figging is using ginger to punish: https://www.scony.com/articles/figging/

Grounding is stopping him from doing something, just like the one our parents gave..hihi

Where can I get deep heat cream?

Be cautious if you want to try the cream. Depending on where you use it, it can be an evil punishment. Also you can't stop it burning straight away by washing it off (you can wash it away but the burn intensifies before it recedes).

I feel I need to add some kind of disclaimer here that lovehoney would doubtless not recommend this kind of thing. Spanking, nipple clamping, etc might be more acceptable to discuss in this forum? I'm not sure. I don't want to break any rules.

I love having my face slapped!! Well I do during play.
Hair pulling, biting, orgasm denial. Sometimes he'll denying allowing me to come during play he will then make me beg to masterbate which is at his discretion.

If he says no I can't if he agrees I can masterbate but again beg to come. He usually ignores me like I'm not there or watches.

I've been such a little brat lately I have a behaviour chart in our bedroom. It's actually a Dani Divine calender we both love her. And he records my behaviour daily.

Nipple clamps are a big one because they really hurt when you have huge nipples!! He's threatening clit clamps!!

The spreader bar, restraints, etc.

Anal stretching, fisting. Please note we are experienced anal players this did not happen over night and we have pre agreed safe words.

Or sometimes if I'm naughty a lot he will deprivve me of love and cuddles!

I'd love a cage!! And stocks!! And some whips. We tend to use a belt

Volbabe88 I'd love a cage!! And stocks!! And some whips. We tend to use a belt

I'd love some stocks, those bondage beds with built-in stocks look awesome!

No slapping from either of us. Edging and ruined orgasms are quite punishing enough.

Where do I start? ;)

We have a long list of punishments or tools which I like to call them...
Open mouth spitting
Light genital spankings
Flogging
Orgasm denial
Forced orgasms/squirting
Teasing with ticklers
Blindfold play

The list does go on and it’s part of our sexual routine, we tend to just do what feels right in the moment

Do you want to be punished or humiliated, or are they the same to you??

Same thing to me. Do u like to humiliate and punish MsJessia. :-))