He needs to accept you as you are Poppy.
Simple as that girl.
SG69 x
we have a development. he has just been talking about buying me a bluetooth vibe for my birthday. i think we are getting somewhere, yay!! x
Looking promising Poppy! Bluetooth vibe sounds good to me.
SG69 x
You've broken him in! Now just get him to sign up to the LH forums and the cycle is complete.
I think you should talk to him about how you feel and discuss in a bit more detail why you have the toys.
I have to say, if he thinks you need the toys because you can't "get any" then that's just harsh right? =|
Student20 wrote:
You've broken him in! Now just get him to sign up to the LH forums and the cycle is complete.
not a chance!! my world. i say alot of stuff on here im not entirely comfortabe with him seeing!! plus, if he wants to buy anything it means he has to use my account and i get the ipoints!! yay!! x
Ooo nevermind what I said then if things are looking up! ;)
Little Lady wrote:
Ooo nevermind what I said then if things are looking up! ;)
i think he still has a bit in my mind. he said today something like "you dont need them. you have me" so i just explained its nothing to do with needing it. its something i enjoy and then he came up with the idea of getting me something. i think it will help him if he gives me something because its connected to him in a way. x
Yeah it might make him understand that little bit more too.
I remember asking my bf if he had a problem with me getting sex toys and he said he had no problem! I don't use them with him as I don't really need to, but when he isn't here (we don't live together) and I'm horny I have something to relieve me.
Maybe he feels kind of threatened incase he's not as good as your toys?
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Little Lady wrote:
Yeah it might make him understand that little bit more too.
I remember asking my bf if he had a problem with me getting sex toys and he said he had no problem! I don't use them with him as I don't really need to, but when he isn't here (we don't live together) and I'm horny I have something to relieve me.
Maybe he feels kind of threatened incase he's not as good as your toys?
i think alot of blokes dont realise that there is nothing to compare, they are 2 seperate things. but im sure he will come round soon enough!! x
well i do hope he does come round,
buying toys for the g/f to use on her own is fine by me, but buying toys that we can use together does add spice to sex with g/f.
I love using them on her and love them being used on me.
There are sometimes when we dont use them and it hasn't effected the sex.