I turned down cock and ball torture and being a regular household chore slave for a lady. She wanted me in a maid uniform for the tasks.
Different ladies gave me offers. CBT offer was when I newly dabbled in the BDSM scene and a friend offered it during flogging me, when she briefly lashed my balls during the flogging.
The maid offer was from a lady I lnew who lived quite a distance away, but wanted me to visit frequently and I could not commit to her requirements.
An ex of mine wanted a mfm threesome when we were together. I rejected it because I wasn’t ready for it at the time. It was totally the right decision to turn it down as it wouldn’t have gone well, but the version of me now would have been far more open to it.
Lots and lots and I don’t regret turning down any of them.
In a roundabout way I turned down an extra £7k in salary because I didn’t want to go against my morals.
I’ve turned down far more offers than I’ve ever received, and I’ll admit that some I’ve bitterly regretted doing so, but the majority turned out to be the right move turning them down.
I have only turned down a couple offers over the years. One was from a woman I met when I was into video games. I often went to the arcade and played games, sometimes for hours. A woman who worked there made a pass at me, and even though I was in a mostly sexless relationship, I was committed, so rejected the opportunity. The second offer was from my ex wife. We were going through the divorce and she was moving into an apartment, and needed help setting up her tv and telephone systems. I agreed to come help her, just to be kind,and I already knew the equipment as it had been ours. After I got things working she came up to me and pulled me toward her, and said we should go and have sex, for “ old times sake “. I said, you had lots of chances for sex for years and didn’t want it, so, no, I’m not going to give it now. If I had had sex with her then, it may have changed the dynamic and possibly made me rethink carrying on with the divorce.
Randomly a distant acquaintance has kept pestering me this week with sexual talk and hinting to wanting to meet me but I’ve kept trying to change subject and dally from their advances in conversation as they are in a relationship and due to be married and I’ve asked them what their partner would think of this and they replied with “they wouldn’t know anything” 
Like hell am I gonna be used as some seedy secret in someone’s cheating antics!! Plus why would I lower myself to be used in this way when I’ve already got a genuine love interest that I’m smitten with and wouldn’t wish to betray 
I’ve turned down a fair amount of offers over the years, most of them because I was in a relationship, which I do regret in hindsight but I did what I felt was the right thing at the time.
I’ve had work colleagues ask for hook ups in/outside work and friends try move out the friendzone. I had one offer of spending 3 hours in a sex dungeon with someone, they offered a dominatrix to give me my first ‘proper lesbian’ experience, I declined. I was asked to attend a swingers night as the guys wife couldn’t make it, but that isn’t my thing so I politely declined. I had a few friends ask me to take their virginities. One work colleague asked me to record myself saying certain phrases and moaning, I can imagine why but a bit awkward considering I scolded him infront of senior management almost daily about his IT habits on company devices!
Not really, but I find people just aren’t blunt . They will flirt and hint and tease but they won’t say it outright because maybe they’re afraid of being turned down? But I usually find I’m the one that sends the offers out and gets turned down! It also depends what circles you’re in… X
I lived for a few years in the USA before I returned to the UK after meeting my wife.
I was in a relationship for most of my time over there and was very happy. As an English guy, decent looking (25 years ago!), in good shape (always been into sports and stuff) and fairly materially comfortable, I just found I was absolutely inundated with female attention.
It was really, really easy to meet good looking women who were interested, to an absolutely ridiculous degree! I turned down more in those couple of years than I have in the entire rest of my life combined.
A female who I used to work with came over to ours once after a night out ,a few drink were shared etc .my husband was there too with us .it got late and we said that she could stay over in the spare bedroom.so cutting to the chase she said she wanted to have a 3some with us so she could basically get to sleep with me. .she is a lesbian but she would be willing to “take on for the team” and that my husband could join us.we thought about it for a couple of seconds and decided not too.the drama that could have ensued would have been equal if not greater than the pleasure gained .the work colleague thing was a massive non starting point for us .personal and work lives should be kept separate in those type of things we all agreed .plus husband didn’t appreciate the one for them comment at all
Since being married I’ve turned down offers from other women.
I was tempted but my morals got in the way. I’m not sorry.
I turned down an offer of sex in my car.
It was a Bond Bug!
Google it and you’ll see why I turned it down.
I have turned down multiple over the years , been a while for an ego building offer . Explaining I am married and do not cheat on my wife . The one that I was going to take when I was single was to stand in for a stripper that cancelled for a bachelorette party my ex girlfriend was organizing for a friend of hers . I would have started out as a stripper and then be a toy for many girls I knew . Then my fire pager went off. , calling for the dive team for two women trapped in a car in a river . Had to go save lives . Always tried to dream of the activities if I had not gotten the rescue call .
You’re such a legend!! 
That seems kind of odd, if she didn’t want to have relations with your husband, why didn’t she offer to just have sex with you? I can understand the work colleague situation though. There’s always an obstacle isn’t there!?x
Not even in my own mind , LOL .
Her offer to just be with me still stood but in the past it has always had to be us as a couple involved together with the other lady.i never play just on my own.its purely a sexual thing for us and it has to be ffm or nothing .ill take one for the team just hit a chord ,we both didn’t like .just us ladies playing together would have still happened but the work colleague thing really played a big part so graciously declined.