Oh Heck (my new-ish experiences with clit sucking)

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Hello Lovehoney,

I just wanted to share with you an experience from last night, more for your entertainment than anything else.

For those who maybe haven’t read me on other threads before, I am a married 24/7 submissive, BDSM blogger/mentor (my homepage is on my profile if you’re curious :grin:) and sex toy tester, for both Lovehoney and other brands. A lot of my getting sent free stuff to review is because of the work that I do (and, quite proudly, the standard in which I do it) much more than it is to do with signing up to any other schemes, like the Lovehoney Sex Toy Tester scheme.

As many of you know, as I am sure, one of the most popular toy types on the sex toy market these days is clitoral suction toys. I have been sent three of these for review now, including one by Lovehoney (still unrivalled!) . I review these products and post my reviews on my blog (and Lovehoney, where appropriate). I enjoy them, but for me they are an aid for the times between, not a replacement - there are some things that even the best sex toys just can’t do.

So that brings us to last night, and one more quick bit of backstory: when I first met my husband-to-be, I thought he was lovely and innocent - maybe even too innocent for me. Well, maybe he was, but he soon changed and for the better! :joy:

Generally when my husband goes down on me he is very loving and gentle, and it’s great, but lately and for whatever reason, he’s started getting into clit sucking himself. The first time, he caught me offguard - “okay,” thought I, “maybe he’s just hungry?”

Well, last night he combined clit sucking with his fingers, and holy cow - I think the neighbours six blocks away knew what (or rather, who) went down! :joy:

I’m normally quite a playful person, but even I’m quite quiet and demure today. Maybe, just maybe, he’s finally found a way to take the fire out of me :joy:

Keep smiling, Lovehoney :slight_smile:

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It sounds like he found your buttons to press so to speak. I’m sure you will be asking him for that again. Enjoy.

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I wouldn’t dare to ask for it again, him being my Dom I’d be put firmly in my place. Hoping he does, however…

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He sounds like a clued in Dom does your hubby. I’d be highly confident he already knows and is waiting for when you are least expecting it to happen again, before he extracts the maximum from you.

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Considering he had neither any knowhow nor any interest before me? He surprises me sometimes. As for taking me by surprise? Not entirely. Half the time it’s because i’ve been and activated the switch hy playing around
it and now he’s not letting me out of it.

My father used to tell me, “if you play with matches, you get burned fingers”. Some of us like the heat :wink:

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Absolutely sensational!

My husband is very shy, quiet, kind… Once he is in bed amd in the mood, he is an absolute menace and the combinations he comes up with are out of this world!

If I told anyone what he is like behind closed doors they would laugh at me, total 360 personality wise.

When he goes down, I know for a fact the neighbourhood has heard us before.

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Yours and mine both.

If my husband told you butter wouldn’t melt, you’d believe it. If i said the same, you’d say “ain’t no way, it’ll boil on contact”. I follow the law, but if it’s not the law? You’re gonna have a problem :wink:

In public, he’s a put together, sought after and well respected man. In private? Still lovely, unless and until provoked!

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And provocation is too much fun to avoid :rofl:

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Right? It’s not our fault :grin:

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Seeing as I retook my BDSM test yesterday it’s funny to see how I’ve matured, I’ve cut out a lot of the fat, so to speak. I remember when people would describe me as shy and reserved as they knew me in public life. But privately was very different. Now my private is more public and I’m not shy anymore and I’m a more rounded person for it.

So I get the “that’s not them” conversation. But it’s still so much fun when I promise I can do exactly what I’m spelling out and someone says to me no you can’t, that’s not you. I get a grinch smile on my face internally and invite them to follow me. They don’t say that again after several hours of play.

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I haven’t looked at that thing in a long while, probably don’t need to much - I’m consistently a brat :grin: switch might have increased a bit though as I’ve embraced that side of me more.

I think it’s interesting how we adapt and mature over the years. When I started out (Domme) I thought I had to be strict and tough because, like, isn’t that what being a Domme is?

As I’ve “trimmed off the fat” as you call it,
I’ve realised that I am a sub switch: submission has a natural draw for me, but I can and will “step up” for my partner - or the situation, depending!

As for fhat smile? I wouldn’t know what you mean. You’re not the only dangerous one, you know? :wink: