Oral sex

I enjoy going down on my wife even more when were in the shower together though I think I could do a better job what's people best hints and tips for better oral sex

If you search on the Lovehoney Blog page (click on the link in the purple section at the botton of any page), then there are quite a few articles - might be somethinng helpful there.

I like being flat on my back while my partner licks my clit and fingers me at the same time.

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There is a limit to what people can say here, without being too graphic and breaking forum rules.

But the blog and the book already mentioned are good starting point. The author of 'She Comes First', Ian Kerner, has also written 'Passionista: The Empowered Woman's Guide to Pleasuring a Man'.

I like Emma's comment - clit stimulation combined with a finger or two internally is a good combination. A lubed up finger in a couple of inches and stroking upwards could hit her g-spot very nicely ;-)

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EmmaC1989 wrote:

I like being flat on my back while my partner licks my clit and fingers me at the same time.

Without an question, this is what does it for me! Even more so with a metal butt plug in me too. The Lovehoney Jewel Heart ones are really cute and I have a couple of them ❤️

The best ever reaction I've got for giving oral sex,was when I was licking clit, two fingers massaging her G spot and a finger in her bottom. She came like mad and screamed the house down.

paulsballs wrote:

The best ever reaction I've got for giving oral sex,was when I was licking clit, two fingers massaging her G spot and a finger in her bottom. She came like mad and screamed the house down.

Google "Expanded Sexual Response" - it's basically as paulsballs described. There's some good info in the clinical literature on it. I've also seen it described with the addition of nipple/breast stimulation, and mental arousal also appears to be important. It can lead to an prolonged orgasm of anywhere from 1 to 15 minutes, and appears to be due to the stimulation of multiple nerve pathways.

TandS2015 wrote:

I enjoy going down on my wife even more when were in the shower together though I think I could do a better job what's people best hints and tips for better oral sex

Why do you think you need to do a better job? If your wife is happy with what you are doing for her, does anything you do need improving? Whilst it's very commendable that you want to ensure you are giving her as much pleasure as possible, I'm pretty sure she would be the best person to guide you how it could be better (if at all). Im not explaining this very well and it sounds very clumsy, I just think you might be better off asking her for any hints/ tips if you are worried you could be doing better specifically for her. What is earth-shattering for one woman might not do it for your wife.