Oral

Sex Tips & Talk
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Best tips for oral,if wife has very sensitive clit.

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Gently running tongue around the lips instead ? Deep instide her with ypu tongue

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Use the flat of your tongue not the tip - the light lapping of the tongue will get her to orgasm

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@batjamboree lady of my own hart I love it when he use the flat of his tongue on my clit and a little flicker of his tip

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Talk to each other while you are giving, try all the area. Increase / decrease pressure. Try inside and rimming if it’s a thing for you both stroke and massage the legs at the same time can distract from the over sensitive clit.

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Try using the underneath of your tongue as it’s a different texture to the top. There are also plenty of other parts of the vagina that are pretty sensitive to a tongue :smiling_face: you could try using the flat of your tongue and rub against the hood rather than direct contact or even a gentle suck! Just mix it up and be gentle :grin:

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Maybe she can still enjoy licking up and down her inner labia and depending on her sensitivity you could also lick and kiss her clitoral hood and above the exposed clitoris, using a pressure of tongue and mouth that she likes. Seems obvious but also don’t forget that your nose might be rubbing her sensitive clit unintentionally so vary your head angles accordingly. If she’s open to rimming maybe that is another area you could try.

@batjamboree mentioned using the back not the tip but I would experiment with what your partner enjoys, varying the area of your tongue (front/back/tip) and pressure/speed based on her feedback. My partner enjoys my mouth pressed widely against her as I use the back of my tongue moving left and right on her clit.

My general oral tips would be:

  • If you are clean shaven make sure you are stubble free.
  • Get in a comfortable position where you can take your time
  • Start slow
  • Look at her and be guided by her facial feedback and other tells
  • Let her know your enjoyment in the view you receive going down on her and her taste and smell
  • Use your whole mouth not just your tongue
  • Don’t forget to use your hands to stimulate other parts of her body
  • Never go straight for the clit, sensitive or not.
  • As she starts to get more excited maybe add some g-spot stimulation from a toy or your fingers
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Gently sucking is a great idea. Your could make your mouth wider that a normal clit sucker and your lips would be softer against her skin to provide a more gentle stimulation of her clit to a toy

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Inner thighs then outer labia lips avoiding her clit then the crevice between her inner and outer labia then between the inner labia but down at the bottom end and if she’s ok push up her legs and lick on down to her bum and rim her when she’s ready you can start to gently tease towards her clit if it’s still behind the hood it’s probably ok still and then push upwards and reveal it to finally finish her off

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From a sensitive clit owner:

  • Featherlight touches; sometimes it’s the almost-not-touching that sense us over the edge
  • Don’t be afraid to let things get wet and messy.
  • Use slow, firm, flat licks so you almost come off of her clit before you go back onto it
  • Work two fingers in and our of her slowly while you gently kiss her clit
  • Never rush; enjoy the process and she will too
  • Feedback, feedback, feedback - tell her how amazing she tastes, how beautiful she is and how hard she is making you
  • If she’s into it, add in some bondage - some bed restraints and a blindfold will set her mind free
  • If you want to go next level, add in a glass dildo - a cool glass dildo inside her and your warm tongue on her lapping up her juices will take her too an orgasm she didn’t know she could have

Good luck :slight_smile:

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Just listen to her. Be gentle, slow, have her guide you. Gentle touch / tongue. Tell her to tell you what she wants. I love being told what to do and then do it. Be there for her.

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Mrs W here …

You got some lovely tips here … in fact this thread nearly had me halfway there meself … xx

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@Wurger i got rather aroused writing my own suggestions lol

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Check out the book, “She Comes First” by Ian Kerner, PhD.

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I love doing this - totally gets me going - but always open to additional ideas on how best to do it - got a few ideas here. Are there any other places that ladies like a little vibration going on while her man (or lady) is down. She isn’t into bum play but want her to have an orgasm that literally rips my head off while I am down there so happy to try what people have to suggest.

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You could try G-Spot stimulation with one hand while fingering her with the other hand. Also, Lovehoney sells the Duo 2 toy that Womanizer makes. It has an arm that goes into the vagina for G-Spot stimulation and a clitoris air sucker that stimulates the clitoris simultaneously. It has separate controls for the vibrating G-Spot arm and clitoris sucker. The toy is rather expensive, but it provides full body shakes orgasms.

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I want her to just go nuts so to speak. will take a look.

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