Hi everyone - Just re-connected with this site/forum after a couple of years away.
Would like to hear your thoughts on boyfriends/husbands being orally? Mine has suggetsed it (mostly during sex-talk!) and i'm not sure he is 100% serious.
Also not sure how I feel about seeing him suck another guy and wondred what others thought?
Orally bi? As in, he just wants to experiment, or is bi and ready to try?
If you aren't sure about adding a third party, don't do it. Maybe propose the idea of bringing a strap on in to the bedroom to start and see where it goes from there.
He's not looking for anything anal - doesnt even let me go there!... From what he's said he'd like to try sucking a cock - ideally with me!
He's not looking for anything anal - doesnt even let me go there!... From what he's said he'd like to try sucking a cock - ideally with me!
So like a MMF threesome?
If it's something you'd both want to try then go about it safely but by all means go for it :)
I suppose I'm asking if any other women have had this experience with thier man? Does it turn them on/off?
I know it would turn me off because I see my OH as very dominant and giving a man oral would be submissive in my eyes. It's all about how you see your OH, you could try wearing a strap on and having him suck you off. You've also got to consider how you'd feel having another person in the bedroom
have u tried a strapon?
My husband recently told me he is curious about men. I love my husband dearly, introducing someone else onto the bedroom is a massive no no for me, I refuse to share and he knows this. It will be something that will remain fantasy.
Alec tried as part of a threesome. Definitely a turn on for both of us!
Hi
Although mot for me ..I can understand .
we are all different with likes and dislikes.
We are here once so enjoy like and have no regrets
We discussed it last night - he says he doent fancy men but is really intrigued by the idea of wanking and sucking a cock. I've had a few bi encounters (years ago) so I understand the 'urge' I suppose. He's always been open to the idea of 'swinging' (he tried it with an old girlfriend) but I dont think it's for me - happy to watch another couple in the same room, but not full sex with someone else. In that scenario (with a large vodka!) I suppose some bi oral stuff could happen... part of me thinks it would be odd to watch, part is turned on by the idea!
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Hey OP, I'm the complete opposite with this, I've had always had the fantasy since I was younger and have never been able to persuade my partners. I absolutely love the idea of watching men together (him giving or recieving).
It's a difficult thing to add a 3rd to the bedroom, I've more than dabbled in this and have a very secure relationship. Be aware that It can bring up all sorts of emotions so be sure in your decision.
One thought that springs to mind is prehaps watching some amateur porn together? Or getting a realistic dildo (Vixen Vixskin do some pretty realistic toys on Lovehoney) like someone else has mentioned.
If you want to look into it further though, there are many sites like Fab swingers or you could goto a swinging club on a Bi night to have a little look because you do not have to play with people and should never feel pressured to, I've gone many times just to watch :). Good luck x
Wildcherry wrote:
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Hey OP, I'm the complete opposite with this, I've had always had the fantasy since I was younger and have never been able to persuade my partners. I absolutely love the idea of watching men together (him giving or recieving).
It's a difficult thing to add a 3rd to the bedroom, I've more than dabbled in this and have a very secure relationship. Be aware that It can bring up all sorts of emotions so be sure in your decision.
One thought that springs to mind is prehaps watching some amateur porn together? Or getting a realistic dildo (Vixen Vixskin do some pretty realistic toys on Lovehoney) like someone else has mentioned.
If you want to look into it further though, there are many sites like Fab swingers or you could goto a swinging club on a Bi night to have a little look because you do not have to play with people and should never feel pressured to, I've gone many times just to watch :). Good luck x
Thanks Wildcherry
We do have a 'Fab' profile, but have only ever Skyped/Cammed with others.
I don't look at it much but I'm pretty sure my other half does! haha. I'm goping to find some 'bi' porn for us to watch this weekend - I know he's not keen on gay porn, or man-to-man anal, so I need try and find something that involves women too I suppose.
Actually quite excited about it, but I'm pretty sure it will remain a fantasy unless we somehow find ourdelves in the right situation, perhaps with a similar couple.
Will let you know how it goes!
curious_voyeurs wrote:
Wildcherry wrote:
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Hey OP, I'm the complete opposite with this, I've had always had the fantasy since I was younger and have never been able to persuade my partners. I absolutely love the idea of watching men together (him giving or recieving).
It's a difficult thing to add a 3rd to the bedroom, I've more than dabbled in this and have a very secure relationship. Be aware that It can bring up all sorts of emotions so be sure in your decision.
One thought that springs to mind is prehaps watching some amateur porn together? Or getting a realistic dildo (Vixen Vixskin do some pretty realistic toys on Lovehoney) like someone else has mentioned.
If you want to look into it further though, there are many sites like Fab swingers or you could goto a swinging club on a Bi night to have a little look because you do not have to play with people and should never feel pressured to, I've gone many times just to watch :). Good luck x
Thanks Wildcherry
We do have a 'Fab' profile, but have only ever Skyped/Cammed with others.
I don't look at it much but I'm pretty sure my other half does! haha. I'm goping to find some 'bi' porn for us to watch this weekend - I know he's not keen on gay porn, or man-to-man anal, so I need try and find something that involves women too I suppose.Actually quite excited about it, but I'm pretty sure it will remain a fantasy unless we somehow find ourdelves in the right situation, perhaps with a similar couple.
Will let you know how it goes!
Watching porn together is a really good start, my partner admitted to me that he liked cuckolding situations so reading stories and watching the videos helped me really get into it.
It's difficult usually to find people, but if you do use Fab you have the opportunity to write your profile exactly with what you want, how new you are to this (so they can expect to talk the long talk about it) and how it should go down. You dont have to meet anyone but maybe "sexy" talking to men together about it (if you're comfortable enough) could help?
Good luck :)
Wildcherry wrote:
curious_voyeurs wrote:
Wildcherry wrote:
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Hey OP, I'm the complete opposite with this, I've had always had the fantasy since I was younger and have never been able to persuade my partners. I absolutely love the idea of watching men together (him giving or recieving).
It's a difficult thing to add a 3rd to the bedroom, I've more than dabbled in this and have a very secure relationship. Be aware that It can bring up all sorts of emotions so be sure in your decision.
One thought that springs to mind is prehaps watching some amateur porn together? Or getting a realistic dildo (Vixen Vixskin do some pretty realistic toys on Lovehoney) like someone else has mentioned.
If you want to look into it further though, there are many sites like Fab swingers or you could goto a swinging club on a Bi night to have a little look because you do not have to play with people and should never feel pressured to, I've gone many times just to watch :). Good luck x
Thanks Wildcherry
We do have a 'Fab' profile, but have only ever Skyped/Cammed with others.
I don't look at it much but I'm pretty sure my other half does! haha. I'm goping to find some 'bi' porn for us to watch this weekend - I know he's not keen on gay porn, or man-to-man anal, so I need try and find something that involves women too I suppose.Actually quite excited about it, but I'm pretty sure it will remain a fantasy unless we somehow find ourdelves in the right situation, perhaps with a similar couple.
Will let you know how it goes!
Watching porn together is a really good start, my partner admitted to me that he liked cuckolding situations so reading stories and watching the videos helped me really get into it.
It's difficult usually to find people, but if you do use Fab you have the opportunity to write your profile exactly with what you want, how new you are to this (so they can expect to talk the long talk about it) and how it should go down. You dont have to meet anyone but maybe "sexy" talking to men together about it (if you're comfortable enough) could help?Good luck :)
Agree - Will see how it goes!
are you on Fab Wildcherry ?
"he just wants to experiment" exactly!
I also want to try :)I used to want to give a guy oral so went to a swingers club and did it. Love the feeling of touching but as soon as got it to my mouth I didn't particularly like it and felt let down. Since then I had a partner who wanted to see me do it so during threesomes I would but was very much 'going through the motions'.
Wavey_Davey wrote:
I used to want to give a guy oral so went to a swingers club and did it. Love the feeling of touching but as soon as got it to my mouth I didn't particularly like it and felt let down. Since then I had a partner who wanted to see me do it so during threesomes I would but was very much 'going through the motions'.
We watched some bi-porn over the weekend. It's difficult to find stuff that doesnt have lots of men-only anal and/or kissing (which OH doesnt like). I'm the same with men kissing, it feels odd, but I enjoyed the scenes that involved women too.
I'm still not convinced we'll ever try it, but the thought of sucking a cock with my OH is starting to make me feel horny!
Maybe that's where I went wrong, maybe we should have shared instead of me doing all the sucking and putting on a show lol Have to admit I enjoy watching male on male porn when there is a woman also involved but not when just all male actioncurious_voyeurs wrote:
Wavey_Davey wrote:
I used to want to give a guy oral so went to a swingers club and did it. Love the feeling of touching but as soon as got it to my mouth I didn't particularly like it and felt let down. Since then I had a partner who wanted to see me do it so during threesomes I would but was very much 'going through the motions'.
We watched some bi-porn over the weekend. It's difficult to find stuff that doesnt have lots of men-only anal and/or kissing (which OH doesnt like). I'm the same with men kissing, it feels odd, but I enjoyed the scenes that involved women too.
I'm still not convinced we'll ever try it, but the thought of sucking a cock with my OH is starting to make me feel horny!
I think a lot of men would like to "try" but not so many will admit to it.
me an my OH watch bi porn all the time, one of her fantasies is to watch me with another man.