First off, I find it impossible to cum when I'm with a man, & in recent times I'm even finding it hard to cum while masturbating. Plus my orgasms are nowhere near as strong as they used to be. Before I'd make my toes curl to the point of crushing & I could spend many an hour satisfying myself over & over, now I'm lucky if I have 1 & they're just little o's. I have vibrators, a rabbit which I love but as I said my orgasms just aren't as strong as they used to be. My other vibrator, my most recent purchase, is specifically for the g-spot, something I have yet to find. The day I got it I spent nearly an hour & a half on the hunt, for want of a better phrase, but I only ended up sore. I even have a self help 'g-spot & multiple orgasm' video but all to no avail.
I became my most sexually adventurous with a recent parner & tried a variety of positions, even anal & we brought out the rabbit. Once or twice I got a little aroused but after that, nothing. I'm starting to get really frustrated with myself, thinking there has to be something wrong with me. Can anyone help??