Laying in bed this morning and feeling horny, I treated myself to an extended solo session. Scrolling through some shared private pics and some spicy chats with my OH. I got myself into a good place, with some nipple play and touching of other areas.
I’m continuing to try different methods with my new toy, and just left it to work its magic as I lay there. Twenty minutes later, I felt an orgasm building,edited by mod
It was an amazing experience, but I didn’t ejaculate.
So my question is, do you orgasm without ejaculation? Are you able to hold back and enjoy just the orgasm, or are the two entwined and you’re unable to separate the two? Sometimes I’ve masturbated and I’ve cum but haven’t felt like I’ve really orgasmed, just focused on the end result.
For me this was purely by chance, but something I want to experience again.
@SW.Horny this is an interesting post to be fair. I’ve witnessed both orgasms. However it all depends on how you’re masturbating or actually having sex.
The orgasm you describe without the ejaculate, happens to me only when my wife Pegs me. It is pure ecstasy. My body shakes uncontrollably and I do leak precum in the build up I just don’t finish with an explosive ejaculation. I’ve never witnessed this when I’ve had a solo masturbating session, it’s more the normal way to cum, not as intense and then just blow my load.
Either way I can assure you it can be normal to have orgasms without the ejaculate, it just depends on how well you stimulate the prostate.
On this occasion it was only through stimulation of the penis, specifically the head, where the toy was focused. There was precum as normal but no actual ejaculation, just the orgasm. It was a great feeling!
I have done similar, I have the Sam Neo 2 and it feels like someone is sucking me. I lay there letting it do its thing while also watching videos/pics of my OH. I can do this quite often with this toy.
She also likes to watch it do its own thing, finds it very hot!
I used to be on tablets that as a side effect caused retrograde ejaculation. I would cum into my bladder.
So once upon a time I often wished I could choose when I ejaculated so as to avoid the mess .. I figured it would let me orgasm in more places, more often and make it more convenient. ( No idea what I had in mind but we can dream .. )
But when it was suddenly forced on me I realised what a significant part of a regular orgasm it is. ( I can’t comment on p-spot Os because I’ve never had one ) . Orgasms felt significantly less satisfying and complete. At least to me. And my wife. She said she couldn’t help but be less interested in making me orgasm because there was no pay off and it didn’t feel real. Like I was faking it. ( she knew I wasn’t but thats the kind of crazy talk that went round her head )
Thankfully they realised they were the wrong tablets for me and changing sorted it. I can gush with the best of them again ( but sometimes, just sometimes I wish .. )
I have had small orgasms, without ejaculating with my wife and when solo. They feel more subdued, but follow the usual relaxing feelings. Usually I can regain an erection and have a full orgasm afterward.
That said, since my laser prostate procedure, I no longer actually ejaculate and the feelings are not the same.
Yes I’ve experienced it. While making love and holding myself back from comming too many times, when I want to release, I can’t. That has sends my body into a spasmatic, shaking twitching, breathtaking frenzy . We will rest a bit then my OH will finish me off by riding me, blowing me, or a handjob.
Solo. when I have edged too many times in a short period of time I have had body orgasm without cumming.
I’m not even sure how I did it myself! he said he loves his inner thighs to be touched so with coconut oil, I lightly caressed my finger tips up and down as he laid on his front and it got him real hard trembling… so I worked up to his penis and started to stroke it which made him involuntary start thrusting down using my oiled up hand like a stroker… whilst I was working that I used my other hand to slowly start massaging around his bum hole and poured loads of the oil onto it so it all dripped down to his balls and then I slipped my finger in which made him get even more excited as he hadn’t done anything with his ass for a long time!
Finally I then began to massage inside his ass where I know the prostate to usually be, and within minutes of all the build up and multitasking on his penis and ass… he began to uncontrollably orgasm with whole body shaking, penis throbbing and anal muscles tensing!
When he eventually levelled down, he thought he’d ejaculated loads and said he’d never felt such an incredible feeling as that in his life only to then discover he’d not squirted any cum at all but just precummed loads!
Maybe it was a relaxed combination of all that and the position of him laying on front what took him over the edge?!
he said he loves his inner thighs to be touched so with coconut oil, I lightly caressed my finger tips up and down as he laid on his front and it got him real hard trembling… so I worked up to his penis and started to stroke it which made him involuntary start thrusting down using my oiled up hand like a stroker… whilst I was working that I used my other hand to slowly start massaging around his bum hole and poured loads of the oil onto it so it all dripped down to his balls and then I slipped my finger in which made him get even more excited as he hadn’t done anything with his ass for a long time!